The wish of an adult daughter from her mother just like that. A letter from a mother to her daughter about love, fears and hope

Here are collected the most touching, kind, beautiful words of gratitude for the daughter from the mother. The texts are written in prose (not in verse) and are intended both for public speech (at a wedding, anniversary, birthday and other holidays), and for private conversation. They can also sign a postcard, a gift, include it in a letter, or put an end to a quarrel.

Daughter! When you were little, you gave me a feeling of tenderness and tenderness ... Now you have grown up and give me a sense of pride! Thank you for the most wonderful experience in my life.

Daughter! I always asked you to do so that I would not be ashamed of you! Today I want to thank you for the fact that I have never been ashamed of you. Moreover, I am proud of you, thank you for that too.

Favorite daughter! You often thank me for a lot ... I want you to know that I am also grateful to you for a lot:

• for the fact that you are a true patriot of your family and have always done everything to strengthen it, and not destroy the bright world in which you were born and raised;
• for making me happy as best she could and trying to add a little sun to my life during bad weather;
• for the fact that I can turn to you for advice or help and count on your support in difficult times;
• for bringing your fresh, youthful energy into my elderly and measured life;
• for the fact that you are a fidget and constantly pushing dad and me to new “exploits”;
• for your kind, sensitive, sympathetic heart - it inspires me with optimism and new hopes;
• for the fact that you are a caring daughter and I am not afraid to grow old next to you;
• for the fact that you are active, quick-witted and purposeful - I am calm from this and I hope that if you are left without our help with dad, you will not disappear in life;

But most of all, daughter, I am grateful to you for the love that you have always brought into my life.

Dear daughter! They say a person has 2 families: the one that gave birth to him and the one that he himself gave birth to. You have always been the sun in our family and brought only love and happiness to it. Now you have grown up and now you can start your own family. I am sure that you will make your new family a bright and happy place ... you know how to do it. I am grateful to you for the warmth that you always gave me, for your love, friendship and kindness. Be happy!

My girl! I often tell you that I love you, but that's not all. I have not yet said that in my heart there is always a feeling of deep gratitude to you for:

• your kindness and condescension - they relieved me of guilt when, in moments of fatigue, I was angry with you and was not pedagogical;
• for your wisdom, which helps us create a warm, cozy world of our family;
• for always sharing with me her amazing discoveries and joys - this brought beauty, brightness and liveliness to my world;
• for the fact that she regularly bravely took on household chores and gave me moments of rest from everyday troubles - this inspired me, helped me not to become limp;
• for trying to cheer me up when I'm sad;
• for the fact that from year to year I had the happiness to enjoy the sincerity, trust, honesty and disinterestedness of my child - you, daughter.

But my special “thank you” to you, daughter, for continuing to do all this now.

I want to thank you for putting in a lot of effort and honestly trying to grow up to be a wonderful daughter ... And you did it! Thanks to you, I always felt like a happy mother and enjoyed my motherhood. These are unforgettable feelings, they serve as reliable support in my life and help me in difficult days. I will always be grateful to you for this and I promise that I will be the same strong support for you as long as I have enough strength.

As I watch and hear enough of TV and neighbors, I understand that my daughter is a gift version of a child. Thank you, dear, for always trying not to upset me and in every possible way to ease my maternal lot, reduce my anxieties, help with household chores and, at an opportunity, please me. It is thanks to you that my motherhood did not become a feat and I am very glad about it. Thank you for this!

My dear! I am very grateful to you, because you have done a lot for me and continue to do, although you probably don’t even suspect it. I want to tell you:

• Thank you for the sleepless nights that were given to me in my childhood, for anxiety during illnesses and excitement during my school years ... I grew up with you, became wiser, more patient and even more resilient;
• Thank you for the first victories and the joy that you generously shared with me when you succeeded in something ... All this made me happy, filled me with pride and satisfaction;
• Thank you for the sorrows that sometimes happened and which you trustingly carried to me, expecting support ... In trying to help you, I became more inventive, resourceful, bolder, more persistent and stronger in spirit;
• Thank you for your humility and obedience when I had to punish you because my patience was running out… Thanks to these moments, I knew that I was doing something wrong and tried to become better;
• Thank you for the desire to please me and earn my love, for the fear of upsetting me and unwillingness to disturb me over trifles ... It touched me, touched my soul and made my world kinder, gentler and brighter;
• Thank you for your unconditional trust in me ... I was afraid of losing it, destroying it, it made me justify it (trust). Thanks to this fear of not justifying trust, I developed and mastered many new personal heights.

But most importantly, I am grateful to you for the fact that you were and remain my closest, dear and loving person. I promise that I will try to be not only a good mother to you, but also your best friend, reliable support, support and guide in life.

Docha! You and I had everything ... Both good and not very good. I am grateful to you for both, because I know that you tried ... You tried to be better, smarter, meet my expectations, not disappoint me ... Sometimes we both lacked patience, sometimes we lacked wisdom, kindness or a modicum of understanding. I'm not angry with you, I'm not offended, I remember only the good and love. You are beautiful, sensible, caring, positive, independent… What is there… you are wonderful. You will succeed. And everything will be fine. Thank you for being around.

My precious girl! Thank you for always decorating my life... When you were little, you gave me joy with your first steps, new discoveries, thousands of naive questions and homemade wonderful postcards. When you were growing up, you adorned our family with your warmth, care and efforts to learn all the best. Now that you have grown up, I myself often turn to you for advice and support - you have graced my world with pride that I have such a daughter, a wonderful reliable friend and a wonderful continuation of me.

But most importantly, daughter, thank you for decorating my life with your pure heart and selfless love.

Daughter! You can’t even imagine how grateful I am to you for being sensitive, caring and very sensitive to my problems. This helps our family to be friendly, avoid conflicts and not make relationships tense. Your wisdom has saved me a lot of nerve cells. Thank you dear for:

• that you don’t leave the house in winter without a hat, even though you can’t stand it. I know you do it to keep me calm and because I asked you to;
• for not hanging out at night, although sometimes you really want to play pranks with your girlfriends until late - from this I have much less gray hair than I could have;
• for the fact that you do not spend time in dubious companies and are responsible for the choice of the people around you - this reduces my eternal anxiety for you and I feel better knowing that if anything happens to you, it is not because I overlooked you too confused with anyone;
• for the fact that if you leave home, you always tell where and call 20 more times with a report ... Thanks to your courtesy, I can calmly go about my business, and not endlessly dial your phone number;
• for trusting me and leaving all the phone numbers and names of your friends whom I can turn to in search of you - thanks to this I know all your wonderful friends, they are not strangers to me and I am calm for you;
• for listening to doctors when you're sick. I know for sure that you will regularly drink all the prescribed medicines exactly when they need to be taken. Your punctuality and attentiveness to health give me hope that you will not die by a stupid accident, from some nonsense infection if suddenly I am not around;
• for following the rules of the road and not risking your life in vain ... When I remember your reasonable behavior on the road, I manage to enslave my panic attacks, because of which it sometimes seems to me that a car ran over you;
• for the fact that you learned to cook yourself and prefer most often to eat your own food. I have a hope that you will not get poisoned in public catering, consuming all sorts of garbage;
• for the fact that you choose smart and decent men (partners) and I am not afraid for your future offspring. I am not ashamed of either you or myself, looking at your relationship with the opposite sex.

Dear, I can list for a long time what I am grateful to you for ... The main thing is to know: I notice everything, remember and appreciate everything. You are an exemplary daughter, I have nothing to reproach you for, thank you. I only wish you that in the future such a way of life would not be a burden, bring you only joy and be easy. I really don't want you to be unhappy for doing so much for my peace of mind.

Dear daughter! When I look at you, I can't help but admire. You grew up to be a wonderful person, independent, responsible, kind, sympathetic and smart. I am grateful to you for all the time spent together and now that you have your own family, I am waiting for you to make me a grandmother. I'm sure you will have the same wonderful children as you yourself. And I can't wait to see them. I promise, I will try to become an exemplary grandmother and help you raise new wonderful people.

Dear daughter! You know, motherhood has become the most important part of my life for me, I attached great importance to it and devoted most of my time to it. It was important for me that it was successful and that I had nothing to blame myself for. Looking at you, I understand that it has become prosperous: you evoke in me a feeling of satisfaction and pride, and I have no guilt. I want to thank you for the fact that this is your considerable merit. Indeed, without your efforts and participation, I would not have had such a wonderful result, which you are. Thank you for helping me become a quality mother.

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Nastenka

Alexandra Dmitrieva-Kostina

Light, delicate like a flower
It's like she just gave birth.
Tiny bundle, it contains a soft lump
And endless waves of heat.

Oh, how quickly the years go by
My baby has grown up.
These eyes are two stars from the sky -
They look at you, beckoning with their secret.

And behind the hair waterfalls.
Thin, slender, like a vine.
Greater reward, believe me, do not -
To see those happy eyes.

After all, it all happened with a little daughter:
Glorious children and a loving husband.
And for her my tender lines -
Symbol of love, unity of souls.

adult daughter

Angelica Bivol

An adult daughter is the pride of every mother,
How difficult it was, only she knows
In excitement, the soul ached more than once,
If suddenly something happened to the princess.

An adult daughter is our reward
For long nights without sleep and rest.
In the past - notebooks, grades, outfits,
Exams, her prom dress.

Adult daughter - endless anxiety,
She has to learn life now.
May the road be smooth and bright,
So that my daughter does not stumble along the way.

An adult daughter is happiness and joy,
Birds in the shower and tulips in bloom!
Let everything that was dreamed come true
My adult daughter on her birthday!

daughters

Baykina Nina

It so happened - in the morning meeting,
We drank tea, and hello!
My dear man
Thirty years old!

Tea drinking is not enough
To feel the shoulder.
You are my daughter, you are my mother,
And a friend. What else?

I make tea cool
Brief conversation:
Minutes dissolve
Like sugar in boiling water.

Everything is as usual:
What, how, where was it?
Nothing about personal life
All work, all business.

You glance furtively at the clock,
Burning seagull:
"It's all right, it's all right,
And about the personal - in the evening .. "

Waiting for the evening to come
And the hallway lights up.
My dear man...
We drank tea, and hello!

Daughter grew up

The daughter grew up, leaving toys.
In an empty house, do-re-mi does not sound.
Friends haven't been visiting for a long time.
Our girl, you call us.

Your doll sadly looks out the window.
Silently stands the piano in the corner.
Daughter, you stay at least a little

The daughter grew up, spread her wings,
To the stars, striving to make your flight.
May her dreams come true in her life.
A girl in the city will find happiness.

The daughter has grown up, the bell is not heard
In a native house on the river bank.
Here comes spring. Buds open.
The first flower has already blossomed in the snow.
We will celebrate your birthday soon.
The house will be filled with joy again.
You knock on open doors
Along with the spring May rain.

All in the past

Vera Donskaya

Daughters...

All in the past! First, baby talk
And games, and bows in braids.
The carefree wind ruffles the curl,
Love, like the sun, on the eyelashes!

You are all different! But the light of the eyes
It remains the same, the same!
Without makeup and embellishment
Trusting, childishly gentle!

And let someone tell me
That having matured, you will roll away a pretty penny.
But my heart tells me one thing.
She's yours, still the same girl!

Dedicated to my eldest daughter

Galina Veter

Daughter, - gentle, glorious palm ...
Life is fleeting ... and you are already a grandmother.
May God give you health and joy.
May you not see rudeness and filth ...

Light road, good luck, luck!
Let there be only revelations in love!
Happiness, beloved, gentle, strict.
I am very proud of you - touchy.

Daughter - a woman, a glorious darling!
You are my baby ... And you are already a grandmother!

Daughter, hello daughter, bye

Drozhzhina Olga

Daughter, hello ... daughter, bye,
You know the clouds are floating in the sky
And the rainbow shines and the sun laughs
And somewhere in the distance, it will soon rain.

Daughter, dear, how are you?
You're so far away... are you flying away again?
And how would I see you, daughter, with you?
I missed you so much that you can't put it into words.

How is your granddaughter? Studies? Does everyone draw the same?
How about the older one? Is she dancing?
I understand everything ... you are very busy,
I ran ... my heart is bubbling.

Without you I'm so sad and long nights.
I'm sorry, I missed you, my daughter, very much.
And you are so tired ... I understand everything ...
Kiss, miss, love, hug...

adult daughter

Irina Kogolnitskaya

I would like to sing
More often you nightingales
And kisses warmed
Thin hands are yours!

To have a fun summer
Sewed a colored sundress,
In light frills of light
To a dazzling state!

In merry and ringing laughter
I would go to my native light,
Straws would creep into the legs
Every good day!

To fall without knowing
Life walked lovingly
I'm happy, dear,
In pain gave birth to you ...

daughters

Lyubov Dubkova

My daughter can't understand
Who does she look like!

Nose, face shape
You look like your father.

Article and perseverance too
You look like your mother.

Humor and talent of the singer
Passed down from father.

The brush of the creator and resilience to troubles
You got it from your grandfather.

Forever standing on the edge
You repeat your mother.

For the family readiness for battle -
From both parents.

Don't waste your life,
Remember your father and mother!

On your non-circular anniversary
Pour love to the brim!

I will say to the sound of a glass:
- You, daughter, are unique!

Love is not just a pretty word

Marina Boykova

Dedicated to my daughter...

You have eyes like the waves of the sea
Braids smell of honey with flower infusion...
Stop being sad! All! Enough
Next to be with those who are not worthy!

Tears, insults, losses are forgotten,
You are reborn again and again...
You live... You smile... You learn to believe
That love is not just a pretty word...

adult daughter

Marina Volnorezova

Adult daughter, amazing even!
Good adviser, friend, judge...
Something will help, something will tell,
A gentle smile will warm you completely.

Just comfortable, childishly calm,
Happiness is immeasurable, I'm not alone.
There are those moments when it hurts too much
And from under the feet the earth runs away.

Adult daughter, you will feel, I know
Give me your hand, give me a shoulder.
Native voice: I understand you
What more do I need in this life?

But true in this is my happiness.
Infinite connection and willingness to help...
And something is wrong, I'm torn to pieces,
So that my adult daughter lives in happiness.

daughters

Marina Volnorezova

I'll dial your number and hear
Short, fun - hello!
Or on the net you will write with tenderness,
Telling your secret secret...

I'll understand everything. I am mentally with you
Small grievances or joys flight,
I feel you in my soul
Yours hurts, mine is coming to you!

I'm happy when your world laughs!
When a smile is on your lips!
Everything turns out, it happens, it succeeds ...
And grandiose plans in dreams!

Uneasy when a tear steals away
Leaves a trace on the tender cheek ...
And how extraordinarily sweet
Your short, fun- hello!

Big little daughter

Mikhail Vladimirovich Gusev

If the truth is drowning in falsehood,
If it's hard, it hurts, it's bad,
Come to me like you used to.
You are the same baby for dad.

Slowly open the doors.
Slippers toil, suffering ...
You can believe or not believe
I'm always waiting for you...

Come to me like before
Hide your face in my hands
Drink a cup of hope
Forever little Donya.

Saddle my knees
And press your cheek against me
In the light twilight of autumn,
In winter blizzard restlessness.

I am you, my fluff,
I rock like a sleepyhead
Looking for a relax machine
Under the name "dudon" ...

We dive to the bottom of the sea
And wave to distant stars
We will paint the world with peace
No questionable questions.

Do you want me to be a sea star
Shall I put it in your hand?
Well, if you're sad,
Shall I laugh not for fun?

And I will bring you back from the bottom
To a world that is joyful and bright.
We are with you, my dear,
Let's talk about everything in the world...

Svetlana Loseva

Adult daughter - adult games -
Adult life on fragile shoulders.
Games without rules - sharp needles.
Fear and despair in children's eyes!

Everything is not so simple: in a huge world
You can easily get lost in the crowd.
Troubles and misses are carried by thunder
You need to have time to dodge.

Yes, it's hard, but isn't it easier for mom?
How many tears shed for life!
Time will heal any wounds
If only the daughter lived in happiness.

You are her joy, faith and strength.
You are her warm rainbow day.
With her, you can overcome any grief.
You will be happy! Girl, believe.

Daughter

Svetlana Fenapetova

How quickly you, my dear, became an adult.
I look at you, I do not recognize:
Familiar cut braids
This is how my daughter was changed.

I really didn't have time to notice
As the days fled, bowing his head.
From my hands fluttered like a white bird
My bright-eyed girl.

Live a hundred years, not knowing sadness,
Let the paths be easy
Let the fresh wind blow over your shoulders.
Fly, my love, fly...

Daughters-mothers

Tatiana Davidenko

Life rushes like a river in the fairway to unknown lands.
I play mother and daughter. Chur, today my daughter is me.

"Wipe my tears with a dressing gown, it is blue like the sky.
Pick me up from kindergarten! May I sleep with you?"

On the eighth of March, I bake a huge cake for my mom ...
"Yes, mommy, I'm here on the bench! At ten? I'll be there! The floor is worn out!"

Mascara secretly lies in a pocket without much prospect.
"Mom, what are you? What boys? It was an elective"

Institute with the distribution - I'm choking on jelly.
"Boy? Mom, no doubt - he's good! I love!"

Life-river does not let up, carrying me into the distance again,
Plays mother-daughter. Today I am the only mother.

Again dolls, blood on the finger, mascara and lipstick deep into the table.
And the exciting "boys?", - my daughter quickly grew up.

Now, we have already met with the Prince - should I not know this!
Granddaughters-grandmothers have been outlined. Why not play?

Oh daughter, daughter

Tamara Shumeiko

Ah, daughter, daughter ... How quickly time
The clock weaves into years-pigtails.
Other plans, deeds, habits -
You have become an adult. And I'm getting old.

Ah, daughter, daughter. So quiet at home...
Lying, bored, an old cat.
And I'm still in a hurry to the window,
When the kids scream familiar.

Oh, daughter, daughter ... They pull with a magnet
Other countries, other people...
There will be no end to the knowledge of the world.
And I still live by the news.

I won't be sad about the past anymore
And enough, daughter, to look sternly -
Give me a granddaughter. To be again
Whims, dolls, and a bow for a cat ...

Daughters. Prayer for women's happiness

Tatyana Kalyuzhnaya

Take an umbrella with you in any bad weather.
So that any worries are within the power.
And to skip running from work!

And to be desirable until old age,
Do not forget yourself how to dream and love,
Never grow old with your soul
And, peeling potatoes, sing with happiness!
To live without malice and jealousy of torment,
So that a loving husband is both a lover and a friend.
So that the day was bright, the night was a holiday.
So that the son was smart, was a good daughter,
And in old age, so that, as a cure for boredom,
Cheerful grandchildren frolicked with laughter.

And let all diseases - not soon and past,
And if so, then let it be tolerable.
Let there be prosperity. Wealth is not needed!
And so that relatives are sincerely happy!
To not see wrinkles in the mirror for a long time,
So that the envy of her friends could not offend.
To have friends. And you don't have to call them
After all, they themselves will come to chat, to be silent!

So I want complete female happiness!
What it is - everything is so simple and clear.
I ask the Lord with sincere faith:
Not for me! My daughter! By full measure!

Tips for daughter

Eduard Skorokhodov

To be cold for the time being -
Same rule of the game
Though love is not a toy
For older kids.

How to know a loved one
Can the heart tell
But while it is calm -
It's better to play with dolls.

And one more piece of advice:
Your husband is your slave and master.
And the only man
Down to the gray hairs.
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The daughter has grown - Joy.
And my heart hurts.
Like a leaf from a tree
She will fly into life.
How will her fate turn out?
Where will she sit?
What will you learn in life?
Who will be faithful?

Oh fate! I am begging you -
Be good to her.
Save her from adversity
How to leave the yard.
Somewhere in a noisy city
You warm her up.
Save and save her
From bad people.

From unfaithful deeds.
From trouble and from evil.
Give her truth and courage
To be strong.
Give her love high
Until the end of days.
Give her reliable friends.
Give healthy children!

Oh fate! - I conjure!
Spare no kindness.
Whatever I could, I gave it to her.
The rest - give it to you!

My daughter, I can't believe you've grown up so fast. It seemed to me that I would enjoy your childhood for a long time, but the time flew by very quickly. Right now I'm just enjoying the memories. My dear, I congratulate you on your birthday. You know that this holiday is special for me too, so I rejoice no less than you. I want to wish you good luck and happiness, my beloved girl. You are a very determined, very strong girl, so you will need luck to achieve everything you dream of. I have always said that my daughter will reach the most significant heights, and now I do not refuse my words. I see that you have already achieved a lot, but this is not the end. My dear, I want your eyes to always shine! I want to hear from you only joyful news and pleasant words. Happy holiday!

My girl, I look at you and understand that I see my reflection. I just see myself at the same age. I am incredibly glad that I gave birth to my copy. Today is my copy's birthday. My girl, I want to wish you a happy birthday, and also wish you everything that you yourself dream of. I can talk about your qualities for hours because you are the kind of girl who never gives up. I really like that you are so strong, hardworking and purposeful. I wish you to always remain just like that, because these qualities will help you to be fully realized in this life. My girl, I will never tire of repeating that you are my pride. You are getting better day by day, you are improving. Happy holiday to you, my beloved daughter! Remember that your mother can help you in any situation.

My daughter, I remember very well the feelings that seized me when I first saw you. I remember that I constantly repeated that you only look like me, although, in fact, you became like me much later. My girl, I want to congratulate you on your birthday, and also wish you all the brightest, kindest and most positive. You are such an incredible lighter, who knows how to find a common language with people, who can always support her loved one. I am very proud that you grew up with me and became such a wonderful girl who is distinguished by her upbringing and kindness. I have always invested in you just such qualities, and now I see that you have absorbed them perfectly. My dear, let no worries stand in your way. You are quite a responsible girl, so you should not be afraid of anything.

My girl, I look at you now and remember what you were when you were just born. I remember very well how you looked in the first minutes after birth. I remember that for several days you practically did not cry, but smiled all the time. And now you are like that too - a smiling, cheerful and funny girl who does not know how to conflict. I like that you are also a very responsible girl who knows perfectly well what she wants in this life. Since childhood, you have left yourself one task, which you are going to even now. You always knew who you wanted to be in the future, and you haven't even changed your mind since. My girl, I really want you to achieve your goal in the end, because I know how important it is for you. You know that I am always ready to support you, so I always look forward to when you turn to me for advice. I wish you well, my baby!

My girl, I wish you a happy birthday. I dreamed about my daughter so much that after your birth I hurried time to quickly start going shopping with you, watching movies, and keeping secrets. And now I would give anything to go back to when you were very young. I really want you not to rush the time when you have a daughter. The relationship between mother and daughter is completely different, so I really want you to be able to establish the same one that we have established with you in the future. My daughter, I want to wish you on your birthday only everything that you yourself need. May all your dreams come true, may all ideas and plans come true, so that you achieve all the heights that you have been dreaming of for so long. May your health never let you down, because health is very difficult to restore. I wish you happiness, my girl.

My daughter, your birthday has come. I love this holiday very much, because this day gave me my incredible daughter. My dear, I want to wish you happiness first of all. I really want you to make the right choice in life, so that you find a person who will love you more than dad and I, although I think that this is impossible. We really want you to be happy, to be comfortable with this person, then we will be happy. I wish you a sea of ​​positive emotions, many joyful moments, happy events that will cheer you up. I get very upset when you are not in the mood. My dear, never be sad, because everything in this world can be solved. You know that I am always there, I will do everything for my one and only daughter.

My girl, did you really grow up so fast? I just can't believe it, because it seemed to me that time would drag on for a very long time. I enjoyed your childhood, but I didn't even notice how fast you grew up. Now we have a completely different relationship with you, already like girlfriends. I like that you and I, daughter, were able to become close friends. I really want you to never hide anything, because you know that I can support you in any situation. I really want to congratulate you on your birthday, and also wish you all that you yourself need to feel happy. I know that at times you are sad, you are scared, but you cope with these situations and moments. I'm proud of you, daughter. You are an incredibly independent girl, but do not forget that your mother can always help you.

My baby, my daughter, I love you very much! I congratulate you on your holiday, today you are one more year older. Very soon you will have a family yourself, and it seemed that you were born yesterday. I want to wish you, my dear, a sea of ​​good luck, a sea of ​​happiness, love and patience. Do not forget that not everything turns out the way we want, but all this can be achieved, you just need to be a little patient. I want to advise you to appreciate every moment, because it is unique, it will not happen again. It seemed to me that you would remain a baby for a long time, and now I really regret that I did not record every moment. My girl, I want to wish you also health, because it is never superfluous. Let no anxieties and problems interfere with you, do not make you sad. Remember that I am always there, I am ready to support you and help you, my daughter.

Congratulations to your daughter on the phone

Children change our lives. With them, you clearly understand how time flies. With them, you clearly see the world around you and people, you begin to notice things that you didn’t pay attention to before. With them, life acquires a special value: we rejoice more, experience, dream and empathize.

And children grow up, gradually they become more and more independent and independent, and we are weak and dependent on them. Everything returns to normal, and already we - parents - need unconditional love, support and acceptance.

daughter's letter

I'm 18. You are not yet here, and I do not know when you will be born. But I'm already thinking about you. About what I want to be by the time you come to me. About what kind of family I will create, what I can give you, what to teach. I have so much more to learn about life. I want to try myself, take risks, win and fail, fall in love, learn and grow, to be fulfilled by the time I meet you.

I'm 25. You came to me, my girl! I am very happy that you showed up! But how difficult it is for me now! I had no idea that it was so hard to take responsibility, to make decisions that affect the life of such a small and such a dear person, to get used to a new role and to a changed way of life. You need to re-prioritise and not get lost at the same time from yourself. I find it difficult. Sometimes I get angry and break down. But it is important for me to tell you that I really want and try to be a good mother for you.

My little princess, I want to give you the whole world, show you the sky and stars, sunrises and sunsets, trees and flowers. I want to listen to the birds singing and the sound of the wind with you, hide from a thunderstorm, pick mushrooms and eat berries! Surprisingly, only now, looking at the world through your eyes, for the first time I see it so completely and brightly! How quickly a ladybug crawls on a leaf! Ants drag some crumbs across the road, organizing a real ant highway! How long have I not stopped, not looked closely, not seen how much life is around!

I'm 30. And you are 5. You are a small, restless why little girl! Sincere, open, loving. You are so mine now! And it's so scary that someone or something can hurt you, hurt you. I want to protect you, save you ... or arm you. How to treat you, how to teach you, how to react in difficult situations... A series of difficult choices. A power so difficult to exercise.

We have come a long way in these five years. We learned to be together as one, and to be separate from each other. Together we went through crises, rising to the next steps in development. They learned to understand each other without words, and to negotiate using speech. To be honest, there were times when it was very difficult for me. It happened that fears, fatigue, irritation, anger and even boredom rolled over. Sometimes I felt like I was in a cage and dreamed about how I would someday get out of it. But I looked at you, my girl, and saw how you need me, loving and accepting. And I realized how much I need you. And it made me work on myself, change, learn, grow up. Never before did I think that it was your childhood that would make me truly an adult.

I'm 35. You are 10. How fast you are growing, daughter. It is already difficult to imagine the small, warm lump that you once were. You are becoming more and more independent, interacting with the world more and more boldly and decisively, and I am glad to see this. I like to be friends with you when we share thoughts, observations, experiences with each other. And I really appreciate it when you come to me for comfort and support. I feel like we are a team. And you're still so mine-mine. How important it is for me now not to succumb to temptation and the resulting freedom, not to hit work, girlfriends, younger children and not lose these precious few years (only) of such a fragile and deep intimacy with you, daughter.

I'm 40. And you are 15. A difficult period. You are a teenager - stubborn, daring, changeable. Either frightened and defenseless, then withdrawn and aloof. Now you really become SELF-standing - you are looking for your supports, you form your beliefs and values. You are taking your own first steps in the adult world. And if you knew how hard it is for me to force myself to let you go. To see how you fall, hit painfully and not dare to secure you, pick you up, hold you. I'm so afraid of losing you. Therefore, I scream, I force, I control. But every time I see you fall, get up and move on, try, search, I mentally let you go. My support is faith in you and your path.

No matter how much you push away from me now, I really want you to remember that you are infinitely dear to me, daughter, and I need anyone - strong, and weak, and self-confident, and confused, victorious or defeated . We are still one team. We both really want your life to be happy.

I am 45. And you are 20. You are quite mature, strong, beautiful. But at the same time - naive, trusting, fragile. Men, flowers, dates. Institute, work, friends. And I'm getting used not to interfere in your life. And it's still not easy to stay away. You know what helps - friendship with you again, but this time not just like mother and daughter, but like two women with equal respect and attention to each other's world. And also my husband, with whom everything is different now, and therefore new. Both work and my dreams, which have long been insistently demanding implementation.

What is important for me to tell you is that I am there and I believe in you. What I need now is to see your happy eyes.

I am 50. You are 25. You became a mother, and now I am a grandmother! Incredible realization that life goes on, our family goes on! You will be closer to me, because now we are both mothers. You will be able to understand me better, and I will be able to convey to you all my accumulated experience of motherhood! How much I want to tell you! But!

You distance yourself, protect yourself, protect yourself. Grievances - your old ones against me, my responses to you. It hurts, because something that had been hushed up for years began to be spoken out. Because you are returning my mistakes to me now, and I CAN'T change anything ... And the only thing left for me now is to hold on to "my truth." After all, I really could not do otherwise then, although now I might have acted differently.

I really appreciate the contact with my grandson. In no case do I want to replace you with him or become better than you. Surprisingly, I can give him the love that I so wanted, but it was so difficult to give you. I manage to play with him, selflessly, cheerfully, without looking at the time. And also joke, laugh and pamper him. Less responsibility, fears, duties. And that makes it so easy to love him. Its like a continuation of you, my daughter.

What do I need now? Please don't reject me. I've made mistakes, I've been wrong. But, I know for sure, I tried very hard to be a good mother to you. The way it could have been then. I really hope for your acceptance. I really want to be close to you and your children, to be your mother, and their grandmother.

I am 60. And you are 35. What a joy to see you as an adult, wise woman. How glad I am to share my knowledge and my experience with you, even if it's just a recipe for pickling cucumbers. It's great that you can visit each other, chat about this and that, and just be friends. How glad I am to see the growing grandchildren and enjoy the fullness of the family.

There is only one thing - creeping old age. And the fear of emptiness, weakness and loneliness. So far, only fear. But how much I want to “cling” to your family now, your problems, plans, worries. Just not to be alone.

And I'm looking for something to fill myself with - new hobbies, creativity, part-time work. It is very important for me to find support now not in you, but in myself. For you to be free.

I am 85. And you are 60. So your grandchildren have grown up - young, strong, beautiful! Like once you and once me. And I'm still your mother, although it's hard to imagine now. Rather, you are my mother. Old age is hard. And how grateful I am to you that I have you. The last thing I want to do is be a burden to you. And I cling with all my strength to my supports - my habits, values ​​and beliefs. Perhaps that is why sometimes I look like a mischievous, stubborn, scandalous old woman with outdated views on life. Every day it is more and more difficult for me to stay in reality, it is more difficult to resist and fight. I now remind myself of a child who is growing backwards ... I beg you, my daughter, do not scold me, do not blame and do not evaluate. I can't bear what is happening to me right now. The most I need right now from you and from our entire family is acceptance, just acceptance.

And the greatest joy for me now is to see and hug my great-grandson or great-granddaughter to my chest. It is really happiness to know that life goes on, our family, our family goes on, you and I, my daughter, live in them - our knowledge, experience and our values.

I love you very much, my girl, my dear person through all my life. And I'm so happy to be your mom.

The daughter's wishes express all the endless love and tenderness for the girl, who will forever remain a little princess for her parents. They want their daughter just like themselves, only even more and even better. But, as you know, no one wishes bad things for themselves.

In verse

• My flower is cute, daughter,
• You always bloom with a flower,
• Shine from the sky like a star
• Fulfill all desires.
• Be beautiful and sweet
• Definitely good
• Give people affection
• And live like in a fairy tale!

• I wish you, daughter
• Study well,
• So that your soul soars
• Firebird in the sky!
• So that your knowledge
• You brought to life
• And so that the native hearth
• You didn't leave.

• Daughter, let your life bloom
• And let there always be honey on the table,
• Let the money live in the wallet
• Like spiders, let them weave webs.
• And in the network those money again come across,
• And may good luck meet you more often!
• heavenly beauty to you,
• And the fulfillment of any dream!
• Sweets to you, live chocolate,
• And the mood will always be gratifying!
• Peace to your house and happiness,
• And let the beloved disperse bad weather!

• I love my daughter very much!
• Let the nights be passionate
• Let the beloved be kind
• And you yourself be happy.
• Always be queen
• In life, be the first everywhere,
• Like a gazelle, be slim
• From a favorite drunk!
• Be a magical minx
• Never be a liar
• Always help people
• And from God happiness will be!

• I want to be a daughter
• Slim like a birch
• love mom and dad,
• In the eyes so that tears
• Never showed up
• Except from happiness
• And let them go out of life
• All sorts of misfortunes.

• I wish my dear daughter
• A delicate bloom of a flower,
• Dear lilac,
• And say goodbye to laziness!
• To clean the apartment
• So that you wash the floors
• To keep the dust low
• You loved order!

• I hug my daughter!
• I wish you hard work!
• Creativity and patience
• Surprise to all the family!
• So that you always try
• And cleaned the apartment
• To work well
• And it's good to study!
• Smiling while cleaning
• And let you tired
• Always bypasses
• Let joy in the heart come!

• I wish my daughter a good husband!
• So that the cold was not terrible with him!
• So that poverty is not terrible,
• So that for you it was like a wall!
• To always give flowers
• I also wish my daughter beauty,
• And great joy, prosperity,
• To be able to put things in order!
• Made us happy
• You are every moment and every hour!
• Good to you, my dear,
• I hug you tightly!

In prose

Your tender cheek on a pink pillow. The eyes are closed, the cilia tremble. A little more and my happiness will wake up - a little daughter. He will say: - Mommy, hello, I want to go for a walk! The heart shrinks from love and fear. What awaits you ahead, my tender bird? What will you become: a famous actress, a children's doctor or a singer - it doesn't matter. The main thing is that, just like me, you become a mother!

You've been diligently cutting and pasting something all morning. Then she ran up, kissed me on the cheek and put a small cardboard crown on my head. - Mommy, this is for you! You say I'm a princess, so you're a queen! Thanks to God and Heaven for a priceless gift - this is a small treasure, my daughter. God! Keep her day and night, and when I'm not with her. I wish my princess to meet a worthy prince and give birth to a wonderful granddaughter for the queen mother!

I had the most beautiful moment in my life - the birth of my daughter. Together we experienced the holidays, laughter and tears. There were also difficult moments. I don't know how I would have survived them without you, my girl. You gave me hope for the best, supported me in my endeavors and rejoiced at my successes. I wish you, dear, good health. And you already have beauty and a slender figure. You are worthy of the throne of the queen and the world at your feet! At least the male half of it!

In your own words

All girls are very beautiful. But when you run towards me, I see the most beautiful girl on the planet! Probably every mother thinks so about her child. And I tried to look at you impartially. No, I'm not wrong! You really have no equal. Let your wonderful eyes remain naive and trusting as long as possible. May evil people not meet on your way. Be a good girl! Old people say that the daughter is a cut piece and you bring her up for someone else's family, where she will go as soon as she grows up. To have one daughter means not to give birth to a single child! Dear girl! My only daughter! For many years you have given me tender love and affection. You were and still are the most important person for me! You are an adult and you have your own children, my beloved grandchildren. I wish your daughter to be the same happiness and comfort for you as you are for me! Daughter! You devote a lot of time and attention to cosmetics, outfits and correspondence on the Internet. This is probably right, because you are a girl! But I want to remind you that there is also spiritual beauty in the world: theaters with magnificent acting, books about beautiful love (not boulevard novels) by famous classics, music that elevates consciousness and takes you to transcendental distances. Please don't argue, just put my words in your heart. I love you!