What is the unknown person called? What are people who hate people called? Love breeds hate
Every day we meet dozens of people with different characters, problems, phobias and lifestyles. Among them there is at least one percent with a serious personality disorder and forms of individualism. The most interesting are people who hate people. Today this issue is especially relevant, because any such deviation from the accepted norm can be harmless and dangerous. Each of these disorders in science has been given specific definitions, signs of manifestation and causes are described. As they are called Let's try to figure it out.
sociopaths
Quite common manifested in the systematic violation of social norms, aggression towards people and the inability to build friendly relations with them. Visually, a sociopath can be described as a frequently conflicted person who is unable to show empathy towards others. Simply put, these are people who hate people, do not seek to make new acquaintances. But they cannot be called unsociable. They show interest in others, but "throw off" any burden of obligations to them. At the same time, sociopaths do not have Sociopathy is classified as a dangerous disorder, since the patient, not getting what he wants, can be aggressive and even resort to violence. Sociopathy breaks the character and behavior of the patient. If left untreated, the disorder will become uncontrollable.
Experts do not have a common opinion about the clear causes of sociopathy in humans. However, there are assumptions about congenital (hereditary) and acquired mental pathology. The latter is due to the conditions of development and formation of personality (strict parents, excessive criticism and demands).
Misanthropes
Often on the forums you can find the question: "What are the people who do not like people called?" And among the many answers slips the term "misanthrope." Who are they and how to recognize misanthropes? Such people either have no friends, or are very narrow. They eschew noisy companies, the misanthropes themselves call their desire for loneliness philosophy or individuality. Misanthropes are characterized by pessimism, distrust, and excessive suspicion. The extreme form is the enjoyment of hatred for people. But, despite the obvious alienation and unsociableness, misanthropes are harmless. Among them, history knows talented creative personalities: A. Schopenhauer, J. Swift, A. Gordon.
A person usually comes to misanthropy when he is not satisfied with the environment, communication with people, their actions. This process is often accompanied by depression and a reshuffling of priorities.
xenophobes
Another form of human hostility is xenophobia. Unlike the previous ones, it is characterized by ideology. Xenophobes are not just people who hate people. Their hostility is associated with a specific feature: national, religious, racial. Experts believe that the roots of xenophobia are hidden in the biological theory of protective reflexes. When a person sees people with a different appearance, mannerisms, character and behavior, at the biological level, the instinct to preserve his species works in him. It is he who prevents the formation of interracial and interethnic marriages. A similar phenomenon can be observed in the animal world. In society, xenophobia acquires a hostile, aggressive character when it becomes an idea. In the modern world, the concepts of "xenophobia", "racism" and "nationalism" have become identical.
Nationalists
Today, there is rarely anyone who does not know what people are called who do not like people of a different nationality. Nationalism has gone through several stages in its history. Each of them was sometimes uniting, sometimes aggressive. Today, nationalism is part of the state policy that protects the interests of its people in a constitutional way. However, this kind of xenophobia has many faces. History remembers many examples of aggressive nationalism (from ancient Rome to the present day). There are people who hate people of another nation, but show their intolerance quite peacefully. When it becomes a mass phenomenon, it is worth talking about extremism.
racists
Since the time of colonialism, people who do not like people with a different skin color have been called racists. Of course, this phenomenon is much wider. It is based on spiritual, intellectual and physical inequalities. Racists clearly divide society into superior and inferior races and seek to consolidate a certain hierarchy. All this turns into a beautiful ideology of the world order. However, experts believe that racism is one of the forms of phobias towards the “alien”.
Racists can be roughly divided into two groups. The first includes people who hate people of a different race and in every possible way deny any contact with them, seek to dominate or eradicate them (extreme). Another group of racists behave tolerantly towards other races. But he categorically denies close relations with them (marriage, kinship).
animal lovers
“The more I get to know people, the more I like dogs,” the famous misanthrope Schopenhauer once wrote. But not all misanthropes love animals. What do you call people who don't like people but love animals? The term "animal lover" is usually used here. Such people have a dozen cats, dogs or other pets at home. volunteers protecting the rights and lives of animals. But no matter how strong their love for the animal world is, they try to avoid human society. Moreover, they feel dislike.
The reasons for animalism are varied. Everyone has their own story: depression, personal philosophy, disappointment in people, betrayal, betrayal, old age, etc. Experts say that not all animal lovers are misanthropes. Many of them have families, like-minded friends. This means that they are capable of loving people.
Tolerance is the path to harmony
People who hate people are called different concepts. Since their dislike wears different shades of manifestation. Summarizing, one clear and correct conclusion can be drawn: any hostility towards people is unnatural for a person. Therefore, it leads to aggression, the destruction of man and the world.
According to statistics, up to 3 percent of the world's population suffer from such disorders. And that's millions! Of these, only a few turn to specialists for help. The rest consider it a style or philosophy of life, their own ideology, politics. To resolve the situation, you need to understand the cause and try to find ways to solve it. And act! As a rule, the first sprouts of human hostility usually take root in childhood. Therefore, it is very important to educate in children a sense of tolerance and equality between people, regardless of their gender, social status, nationality and race.
You weren't here, young man! Man, you weren't here!
How often one hears such offensive words in a queue. For example, in a clinic. "You weren't here!"
And how do you, a donut bawling this phrase, know when we, men, what stood and did not stand! Still would have blurted out: “You didn’t stand here, man!”. Where was it then? It turns out there. And where is there? One discomfort from the above absurdities in speech and similar treatment. "Man", "woman" - all this is somehow biological and faceless.
It turns out the question of how to properly name a stranger in our environment, and even so that it is generally accepted (like "signora" / "signor" in Spain, for example) requires development.
Let's get started:
1. Sir / Lady (we have: Ser / Seriha)
Perhaps the most famous variant in English-speaking countries. Sir, yes lady, yes miss, yes mrs. It sounds, to be honest, short and beautiful. In our Russian version, the lady of the sir cannot be called otherwise than “seriha”. And that just doesn't sound right! Yes, it's confusing. "Seriha" - close to a woman involved in cheese making. No, this option - “sir”, “seriha” - seems awkward to me, not ours.
2. Sir. Madam
Ancient appeal. But it was destroyed along with the community of people who called each other that way until October 1917. By the way, I once had a friend who was reputed to be an intellectual to the marrow of his bones. Scrabble. He was interested in and really loved that layer of aristocrats that dominated Russia in the late 19th and early 20th centuries. It even seemed to me sometimes that the guy lived more in his mind in those times than in the present.
He had one strange feature, for which some individuals sometimes wanted to tinker with the “face about the table”. Namely: he called all the counter - transverse women only as "madam". We’ll go into the student canteen, and he even has a cook who pours the first with a bent ladle - “madam”. The guy so naturally styled women "madams" that he always had constant success. When I roared “madame!”, the girls began to be afraid of me, but not in the least. The same cook slapped the heaviest piece of meat on the plate of a young lover of the aristocratic circles of the last century. It’s good that a friend gave me this piece, because I demanded to “share brotherly” food prey and moderately shook my friend by the chest (those were hungry student years).
Unfortunately, all these "ma'am" ended badly. My friend went south, where he went over a little in a night restaurant. He began to invite the girls of local jocks to dance. At the same time, he called the girls “madams”, squeezed them, almost recited poetry into their ears. And those ears are used to hearing completely different phrases than “madame” and the rhymes of poets.
The girls were extremely pleased with this unusual treatment for them. But the “pitchers” decided differently, and simply “heaped on a very smart baby”. Those beatings were not in vain for the young man's brain and the "madame" was forgotten as something offensive and traumatic in our society.
3. Comrade
This pleasant word used to be surprisingly suitable for both men and women, and even for persons of indeterminate sex. But, "comrade" is also an outdated concept. Although, some twenty-five years ago, "comrade" was the main appeal in our country. “The Tambov wolf is your comrade!” - a brilliant verbal cliché, but - the “comrade” left with his comrades in the abyss of history. It's a pity.
4. Barin, Lady
Agree, you will be pleased if people you do not know begin to call you "master". Here you are sitting somewhere in the park, husking seeds called "Barin", and a beautiful girl comes up to you and languidly asks: "Treat me" Barin, sir!
Or everything is the same, but they will call you “lady”, if you are a woman. Then the peasant will tell you the following: “Mistress! I am a bard! Would you like to taste my "master"? Shall we make a little barchonka?”
They can send such a gentleman, but that's not the point. There is a hitch: everything would be fine, but everyone cannot be “masters” and “ladies”. This does not happen! Because, after all, someone must be a peasant, and a sailor, and a worker, and a soldier. No, the option "master - lady" is far from being for everyone and is not able to become commonly used.
5. Citizen. Citizen
The best option, in my opinion. After all, we are all citizens of our country, and some also of other countries at the same time. Recall Mayakovsky: "Read, envy, I am a citizen ...". You will say that it is too official to call strangers: citizen, citizen. Just like law enforcement officers. If we aspire to a police state, then "citizen-citizen" is also very much in line with the spirit of such an organization of society. A police state for Russia is not the worst option. In the future, perhaps we will get a similar social structure, but not now. Therefore, with a "long-range view" the appeal "citizen - citizen" is very promising.
6. Donkey, Chicken
Used, but very rude at first glance. But if you listen closely, there are also humane notes in it. Love for our smaller brothers - donkeys and chickens - makes the heart of the individual softer, more humane. But getting hit in the face with such treatment in our inhumane society is very real. Therefore, with all the love of Russians for living creatures, the call: “Hey! A donkey in a red cap!” or: “Hey! Chicken on stilettos!" unacceptable.
7. Man!
I'm sure you remember how majestic this phrase is: "Man - it sounds proud!". If strangers see you as a person, they already distinguish you from a huge detachment of mammals. But by addressing another in this way, a person thereby excludes himself from the detachment of people. That's the catch! Few would take such a step. After all, even the most cruel, degraded type considers himself a man. After all, it sounds proud! But - it hits the pride and will not become a generally accepted cry.
So, we see that with the collapse of historical epochs, the patterns of people addressing each other, accepted at the indicated times, are also crumbling. Not so long ago, the time of "comrades" passed. And what does wild capitalism offer in return? In addition to a bunch of "nasyalnik - idiots" performed by Mikhail Galustyan and Sergey Svetlakov - nothing. Probably, in this transitional period, the “citizen-citizen” option seems to me the most appropriate.
Good health to you, citizen and citizen!
Life is designed to constantly learn something. For example, new words that can be used to characterize people who interfere with your life. Why is this needed? You can tell them to their faces without fear of being punched in the face. And just for.
Braggart
Meaning: a person who flaunts his imaginary virtues.
A little about the origin: the root of the word, as you might guess, is French. "Fanfaron" is translated as "brave in words", "boastful", "braggart", "braggart". Also, the Spanish “fanfarron” and the Arabic “farfar” are added to the forerunners of the word, which means “loquacious”, “frivolous”.
In life: the translation speaks for itself. Your comrades who claim to sign for you at any time of the day or night, but then skillfully evade responsibility when that moment comes. Such people, from the emptiness and stupidity of their own existence, begin to exaggerate their own achievements, or even compose fables about their coolness. They fail to find a decent job in a big city and, returning, they compose fables (so as not to drop their reputation) about the fact that almost bandits are hunting for them. And they came to their homeland only in order to lay low. This is not an exaggeration, but the story of a former classmate.
Sometimes fanfare develops into egotism. The difference between egotism is that a person himself begins to believe in his greatly exaggerated capabilities.
reasoner
Meaning: a person who likes to conduct lengthy discussions of a predominantly moralizing nature, while not having at least some experience behind him.
In life: those same sofa philosophers and relatives-losers who assert themselves at the expense of endless advice.
Carrylist
Meaning: a person who constantly asks the interlocutor. Sometimes in order to buy more time to think.
In any case, it infuriates when you are constantly asked questions during a conversation.
Philistine
Meaning: a man with a narrow philistine circle and hypocritical behavior.
A little about the origin: the history of this word is rooted in biblical times, and did not always carry a negative character. For example, tall, powerful people were once called philistines, by analogy with the Philistine Goliath. So be careful with this word: a citizen may think that you are calling him a mighty hero. Then this nickname stuck to the musketeers - the idols of girlish dreams of the 17th century. But once one of the philistines (that is, the musketeers) shot a student in a drunken fight. A trial took place, after which the enlightened German students began to lower the hitherto glorious philistines with special cynicism. With the light hand of enlightened jokers, a strong, but limited, self-satisfied man, the opposite of an enlightened man, became a philistine.
In life: your life is full of them. These are often quite successful people, they can even be called personalities, but they will vilify with particular cruelty everything that they do not understand and that is alien to them. Yesterday they vilified Russian rap because the crowd compared it to stomach food, and today he loves it because everyone started. It is not because he has his own opinion, he believes in these ideals. But a philistine will never understand things that are alien to him. He is like one who begins to turn over the pieces from the chessboard and crap.
Coptommia
Meaning: the desire to appear smarter by using rare words.
In life: in fact, this is what you will be doing if you follow the call in this article. Tellingly, in ordinary life, such people are very annoying to us.
Inert
Meaning: gravitating towards something familiar, unreceptive to the new, backward.
In life: perhaps these are your relatives who do not understand your aspirations and hobbies. Or friends, and those who think that there is nothing better than the Kraski group.
Satrap
Meaning: despot, tyrant, ruler of his own arbitrariness. In other words, your boss or supervisor.
A little about the origin: historically, the rulers of the administrative district in ancient Persia were called satraps. They were engaged in the collection of taxes, maintenance of the army and had more powers than a well-known academician and a hero who leads one of the republics in one of the countries. At the same time, the bastards were so conceited that they constantly rebelled against the Great Tsar.
In life: As a rule, the satraps were vilified, but whether your boss will be vilified is a big question. A despotic dog allows itself to communicate with you as with an animal: it is rude, insolent, humiliates. Maybe he's just an asshole? Come on, it's better to be scum, so it's clearer.
layman
Meaning: a completely ignorant person, ignorant in any area.
In life: not that they interfere with life, but sometimes they make you ask a vital question: how can you not know such simple things?
sardonic rakalia
Meaning: viciously mocking, caustic, caustic.
A little about the origin: the Romans had an expression "risus sardonicus", which translates as "sardonic laughter". It is now difficult to establish where the word "sardonic" came from, but linguists tend to assume that the island of Sardinia is to blame, where the grass grew very bitter in taste. Eat such weed, and the mood is as vile as the smell of the armpits of dirty Gauls and Lombards.
With racalia, everything is much easier. Translated from the French "racaille" is nothing more than "scoundrel" and "bastard". Even Leskov wrote in "Lefty": "Oh, you, sort of rakaliya, I thought, he still doubts!"
In life: sardonic rakalia are a dime a dozen. Perhaps you yourself are the same rakalia. How many of us are there, caustic, caustic, vile? As the classic said, over dofiga. With our barbs, we spoil the mood and lead astray the true people who are unsure of themselves. This is despite the fact that we ourselves begin to behave like little girls of puberty, if suddenly some sardonic bastard begins to publicly mock our ideas and thoughts. What, after all, is a tasty word - sardonic.
Idiolatry
Meaning: self-adoration, self-worship.
In life: people who love themselves so much that during intercourse they imagine their own face. This is something more than narcissism.
A unique classification of psychotypes: 10 difficult people to avoid communication with
“Surround yourself with good people. People who will be honest with you and never ignore your interests.” — Derek Jeter, Major League Baseball (MLB, Major League Baseball) 5-time Gold Glove Baseball Award winner.
“Think carefully before you go over to the bad side: if you are too weak to succumb to this temptation, most likely you will not have the strength to go back.” - Victoria Addino (Victoria Addino), American writer, entrepreneur.
“Stop letting people who do so little for you control your thoughts, feelings, and emotions.” – Will Smith, American actor
Your life is an exclusive event. It depends only on you who will participate in it.
A study conducted in collaboration between scientists at Harvard and Cambridge Universities found that hanging out with a positive person increased your chances of becoming an optimist by 11%, while hanging out with a dull person doubled your chances of being thought of as a bore.
You can make every effort to ensure that you are surrounded by good people, communication with which will give strength and motivate you to new beginnings. But you can also do nothing, dooming yourself to a life with energy vampires who consider it their duty to convince a person that he is an empty place.
It may sound cruel, but it's true. After all, on the way each of us met a person who made us feel uncomfortable. Such people not only hurt others, they infect them with their negativity.
To avoid similar situations in the future, you must admit to yourself that not all of your friends and acquaintances have a positive impact on your life and find the strength to say goodbye to them. Some people sincerely empathize with your problems, support and comfort, others seek to extract their own benefit. It's hard not to notice the difference, isn't it?
10 people to avoid contact with
So, in order to make your life easier and simpler, Isaiah Hankel, the author of this classification, advises you to stop communicating with the following types of people.
1. Chicken Little
Chicken Little is a person who can easily convince you that your idea is not worth a damn. When you tell Chicken Little that you want to try something new, he gives a lot of reasons why you shouldn't.
When you share the results of your own work with him - let him read a few chapters of a new novel, show a picture drawn the day before - Tsypa explains why what you have created is not worthy of the attention of a wide audience.
Chicken people never offer solutions to a problem or ask the right questions, but they are masters at predicting impending failure.
2. Heavy hand
A heavy hand is a person who uses force and blackmail to control the actions of others. Such a person does not care about you, he is interested in what you can do for him.
As a rule, the Heavy Hand holds a high position and has an outstanding mind. Most often, such characters can be found among public figures, directors, mentors and politicians. Their main weapon is the feelings of guilt and fear experienced by the people around them.
3. Tough
You are very unlucky if your immediate supervisor is a Tough Guy, because such people are simply impossible to please. They elevate themselves to the rank of the Almighty and think that they have the right to decide the fate of other people.
However, Zadavaka is no different from an ordinary person: he does not have unique mental abilities and does not know which came first - the chicken or the egg.
Use Tough as a motivator, but don't waste time trying to please him.
4. Drama Queen
Isaiah Hankel talks about this type of people like this:
“A few years ago, I dated a Drama Queen. She constantly dragged me into completely senseless disputes that flared up over some trifles. It all started with a small reproach she threw at me. Usually I managed to ignore him, but she never stopped there: she whined until I began to argue with her.
She always had a reason for sadness: she complained that she had nothing to wear, that there was only news on TV, that I did not pay enough attention to her, that the weather was bad. I tried not to react to her scenes, but I kept giving up.
To be honest, deep down, I kind of enjoyed these skirmishes. Her presentations gave me an additional opportunity to solve problems. Of course, they were meaningless, and the time allotted for their solution was wasted.
The drama queen can be either a girl or a guy - it doesn't matter. Don't let them drag you into performances. Instead, cut them out of your life and finally stop wasting time solving non-existent problems. :)
5. Drainage
As soon as the drain man opens his mouth, you get the feeling that you just ran a marathon. Everything in this person - the sound of his voice, mannerisms, gestures, facial expressions - has a negative impact on the energy balance of the interlocutor.
In the morning you can be sure that today will be unusually successful, but after meeting with the person-drainage you will want to jump out of the window.
Most people tolerate Drainage because they feel sorry for such people and sincerely hope to charge them with their positive energy. But the thing is, the Drainers will never give up their role, because they like to be pitied and given a lot of attention.
6. Elmer
Elmers are nerdy, ruthless, annoying people who make those around them suffer. They can be compared to a thick sticky glue that is almost impossible to get rid of.
Imagine a person who, day after day, repeats that he cannot live without you. He claims that he is ready to do anything, as long as you are there, but despite this, he hurts you again and again.
The Elmers are narcissistic martyrs who don't care what happens in other people's lives. Don't expect them to ever ask how you are doing, because they don't care about your problems.
Perhaps none of the types of this classification can compete with Elmer in the skill of poisoning the lives of others. So if you know Elmers, try to avoid communicating with them. :)
7. Landslide
Isaiah Hankel says this about this type of person:
“Just imagine: in high school, we had a professor who, at more than 50 years old, was not ashamed to drink with his students and organized parties for them. The funny thing is that he was constantly trying to persuade the other teachers to relax a little and have fun. It was a pitiful sight."
It is very difficult for landslides to adapt to the conditions dictated by life. These are cool high school students who hang around the neck of their parents all their lives and spend their free evenings in a bar not far from home. Such people need a lot of time to come to terms with the inevitable changes. Sometimes it takes a lifetime.
8. Princess
If the Drama Queen had a child, he would be a Princess. :)
The princesses act as if there is no one better and more beautiful than them. When the Princesses make mistakes, they rant about injustice and look for someone to blame. They are constantly surprised and ashamed of the inappropriate behavior of other people.
The thing is that thoughts, deeds and their entire existence are green melancholy. If you think that there are not enough colors in your life, think about whether there are Princesses among your acquaintances.
9. Fraudster
Fraudsters are carriers of various ideas and projects that supposedly should save humanity. All you need is the time and money needed to carry out these foolish undertakings. In return, you get a 100% guarantee of the profitability of the aforementioned projects and the promise that they will take care of everything themselves.
When you ask questions, the Scammers smile, assure you that everything will be fine, and advise you to trust the laws of the universe. Such people manipulate guilt and duty to get what they want. They will call you narcissistic if you fight for your own happiness, and noble if you agree to sacrifice it for the "well-being of other people."
10. Manipulator
Isaiah Hankel says the following about this type of person:
“I had a friend in college who could have easily talked me into skydiving. He spoke very quickly, was full of ideas, and knew how to make me feel important. But in the end I realized that this only happened when it was beneficial to him.
He always kept me from doing things that could improve my life and pushed me to take risks that could ruin it. That was until I stopped talking to him.”
Getting rid of manipulators is not easy, because such people have many positive qualities: they are charismatic, energetic, creative and, most importantly, sociable. However, the Manipulators only use them to keep you from moving forward.
To figure out the Manipulator, try to focus on his words, not on his actions. Once you understand who is using you to achieve their own goals, say goodbye to this person.
7 types of people you should be friends with
The second step on the path to a successful fulfilling life is communication with positive people. However, understanding who can make your life better is not so easy. Sometimes people who openly annoy you are best suited for this role. To establish contact with them, you need to change your attitude towards these personalities and, as they say, accept them as they are.
1. Stoick
The first type of person to communicate with is called a "stoic". Talking about this psychotype, Isaiah Hankel recalls his close friend, whom he met in wrestling classes:
“One of my friends in college was a real bore. There was a feeling that he was never surprised at anything and did not rejoice. In general, he could not be called an enthusiast. But he also never worried or panicked. All my attempts to piss him off - so that he showed at least some emotion - ended in vain: he remained restrained, calm and collected.
As he later explained to me, this was his main advantage. When he fought, he won. No matter how strong his opponent was, he always won. My friend was a Stoic."
Stoics have impeccable control over their emotions. They control them so well that they sometimes give the impression of rude robotic people, somewhat similar to the Know-It-Alls from the previous classification.
Stoics focus on events that are within their control: attention, attitude, and the next action they intend to take. Feel free to invite the Stoics into your life, as communication with them will allow you to understand what an active life position is.
2. Mastermind
An inspirer is a person who knows everyone and everyone knows him. :)
Inspirers are best suited to the role of organizers, whose task is to bring people together and direct their energy in the right direction.
It is very easy to confuse the Mastermind with the Manipulator, as he is also charismatic and, as it may seem at first glance, overly sociable. However, the goals set for the Manipulator and the Inspirer are fundamentally different from each other: the Manipulator pursues selfish goals, and the Inspirer seeks to satisfy the interests of the majority.
Pay special attention to this person's actions (not words!): Masterminds create, and Manipulators talk.
3. Inquisitor
Inquisitors ask about everything. When you have a great idea, want to take a huge risk or make Napoleonic plans, the Inquisitors have doubts, they raise objections and consider possible scenarios.
It is very easy to hate the Inquisitor, but it is simply impossible to do without such a character. No matter what you want to achieve, you will need trustworthy, uninterested Inquisitors to guide you on the right path. :)
A lot of people, lighting up some grandiose idea, cease to accept constructive criticism. If someone tries to give advice that might help them, they bury their heads in the sand and hope for the best. Don't become one of these people. Instead, think about what benefits communication with the Inquisitor can bring: unlike Chicken Little, he does not experience irrational fear of what you tell him, but gives advice that contributes to your success.
4. Aristocrat
It is very easy to confuse an aristocrat with a princess. But despite the fact that each of them has exceptional manners, the Princesses behave arrogantly, and the Aristocrats are restrained and affable. Princesses present themselves in a favorable light, taking advantage of the lower position of others, while Aristocrats ignore this factor in order to destroy possible communication barriers.
5. "Loser"
Isaiah Hankel says this about this type of person:
“In college, physics classes were attended by, as it seemed to me then, a spineless guy. He was very reserved and constantly said something out of place. But he had very high scores, and the ideas he described were very pleasing to our professor.
Later I managed to find out that this guy was engaged in the development of computer programs, started his own business and is now thinking about how to make his first million. Yes, now I regret a little that I did not make friends with him then. :)
"Losers" are people who don't seem to fit into your company. They are very clumsy and often make those around them feel awkward. But at the same time, it is precisely those who were once considered “Losers” who decide on absolutely incredible things and achieve success.
This is because they do not waste time learning how to stand out from the crowd and live up to imaginary standards.
6. Gladiator
Gladiators are called enterprising competitive people who like to cope with various difficulties and constantly challenge themselves. What is the result? Communication with Gladiators is avoided.
The thing is that most people are afraid to get into conflict situations, preferring a boring course of life to any changes. Gladiators, in turn, love to compete with other people, because they are confident that competition is the main engine of progress.
Don't confuse the Gladiator with the Heavy Hand: The Heavy Hand oppresses others, killing their initiative, while the Gladiator leads them forward, motivating them to work. Instead of being shy about Gladiators, invite them into your life: they will push you in the right direction and help you reach your full potential.
7. Golden child
Surely in your life there is a person who enjoys universal love. Perhaps this is a work colleague to whom all employees and bosses flock to listen to his point of view on some issue or just chat. Or maybe it's your friend (or each other), the appearance of which eliminates the need to illuminate the room.
Such people attract others with their energy, simplicity and friendliness. From the outside, it seems as if life is throwing them from one hot spot to another. But that's just from the side...
In fact, behind every Golden Child there are many troubles, overcoming which he ended up where he is now. Most likely, for many years the Golden Child made far-sighted decisions regarding not only his work, but also the people who surrounded him.
Don't try to compete with the Golden Child. Instead, try to become a Golden Child by removing people from your life that are preventing you from moving forward.
Remember: your life is an exclusive event!
"An Unknown Man's Tale"- the story of A.P. Chekhov. Written in 1893, published in a magazine "Russian thought" in Nos. 2 and 3 (for February and March), 1893. Included with changes in the sixth volume of his collected works.
Story
In the late 1880s, Chekhov came up with an interesting idea for a new plot. In May 1893, in his letter, he informed the writer Lyubov Gurevich that he "began to write a work without the intention of publishing it." The author assumed in advance that the work would not pass censorship. The writer returned to the idea in 1891, naming the future essay "My Patient's Story".
The story was dedicated to people of the 80s (one of the proposed titles is "In the Eighties"). The idea of the work, the hero of which was a terrorist, was of topical importance at that time. In the 80s of the 19th century, the activities of the revolutionary populist organization Narodnaya Volya continued, despite the defeat of the leadership of the organization in 1881, after the assassination attempt organized by them on March 1. In April 1887, the trial of A. I. Ulyanov and his comrades, who were executed in May of the same year, took place. In June 1887, a process took place over the People's Will G. A. Lopatin and the poet P. F. Yakubovich, who were sentenced to death, later replaced by hard labor. The creative idea of "The Story of an Unknown Man" could show the fate of the participants in the revolutionary movement, with whom Chekhov was familiar (including I.P. Yuvachev).
During Chekhov's lifetime, The Tale of an Unknown Man was translated into Serbo-Croatian.
Plot
An "unknown person", who in the past called himself a lieutenant of the fleet, is sent to St. Petersburg to infiltrate the environment of a "serious enemy". Disguised as a servant, he serves the frivolous members of a wealthy family. In the end, he is disappointed both in his mission and the aimlessness of life itself, refuses to continue working.
Analysis
The translator Hugh Aplin compares the story with the works of Turgenev, with authors creating female characters of "great moral purity". Louis de Bernières called "The Tale of an Unknown Man" a remarkable work of literature.
Adaptations
In the late 1960s and early 1970s, director G.S. Sokolov staged a performance based on the story on the stage of the Gogol Theater, taking on the main role Alexander Pashutin. The performance was a success and subsequently entered the repertoire
