A stranger gave church candles. In the church you can not light a candle on someone else's. And that's why…. You can put candles about health and repose on Easter

The custom of placing a candle in front of an icon is very ancient. Everyone knows that this should certainly be done, but not everyone knows about the reasons why this ceremony is performed.

The custom of putting candles in churches came to Russia from Byzantium, but it originated in the Old Testament times. In the Moses Tabernacle, the lamps were a necessary accessory of the priesthood: they were lit in the evening before the Lord and served as a symbol of God's guidance, the fact that the Law of God is a lamp for a person in his life.

“We never celebrate divine services without lamps,” said the teacher of the Church, Tertullian, “but we use them not only to drive away the darkness of the night, but we celebrate the Liturgy in daylight; but in order to depict Christ through this - the uncreated light, without which we would wander in darkness even in the middle of the day. Our Lord Jesus Christ said: “I am the light of the world” (John 8:12).

Gradually developed rules for lighting candles in temples. At first, a burning candle preceded the taking out of the Gospel, and during the reading, all the candles were lit. Subsequently, they began to put candles in front of other sacred objects, in front of the tombs of martyrs, in front of icons. The custom of putting candles has come down to our days. Moreover, it has become so familiar to us that when putting a candle, many do not think, but what does this action mean?

A candle lit in front of the icon is a symbol of prayer, a sign of spiritual aspiration to God. Pure wax, from which candles are made, is a symbol of the fact that a person repents of his sins and is ready for obedience in the face of God. Speaking about how to put candles correctly, it is worth starting with the fact that this should not be done automatically, but with awareness and with a feeling of love in the heart in front of the one to whom the candle is placed. When you buy a candle in a temple, it becomes your voluntary offering, a symbol of your faith and love.

External action is accompanied by internal - prayer. A praying person often cannot find words to accurately convey his condition, to express everything he wants to say to the Lord, especially when he is surrounded by other people. And here a candle helps him, the flame of which is a symbol of this prayerful feeling that is inexpressible to the end in words.

How many candles to put and in front of which icons depends on the desire of the believer. But always put a candle with a prayer. If this is an icon of our Lord Jesus Christ or the Crucifixion, then you can say: “Lord, have mercy on Your servant (name)” or “Lord, Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on us.” And you can also read such a prayer, “Lord, accept this sacrifice for Your servants (whom you put the name for).”

If this is an icon of the Mother of God, then with the words: “Holy Mother of God, save us, Thy servants (names)”, in front of the icon of the saint: “Holy servant of God (name), pray to God for me (or for us and list the names)”.

It is very good to add to these prayers a prayer in your own words, expressing your request, thanksgiving.

Approaching the candlestick, you need to light a candle from other candles or from the lamp on the candlestick (if there are no burning candles around), then put it in an empty place (or, if all the places are occupied, just put it next to it - they will definitely put it in the empty place). After that, you should cross yourself twice, venerate the shrine, cross yourself again and bow.

Questions also arise: Why is it impossible to light a candle from a lampada to put it on a candlestick? There are no religiously or theologically explicable prohibitions on lighting candles from lamps, and any reasoning on this matter does not go beyond the “grandmother's folklore”, which is very common among non-church people, and sometimes, alas, is also found inside the temple. We see the only reasonable reason for the ban on the issue under discussion is that, when lighting a candle from a lamp, it is very easy to drip it with wax, which is very difficult to clean off afterwards. Perhaps it is this struggle for purity that forces the keepers of the candlesticks to pull the prayers.

Candles that believers buy in the temple have another very important spiritual meaning: they are a voluntary sacrifice of a person to God and the Church. This has been the custom from time immemorial: at first, believers themselves donated wax for candles, then the production and sale of candles became one of the sources of income for monasteries and temples. The proceeds from the sale of candles are spent on the maintenance, repair and decoration of the temple, on the maintenance of the choir, the Sunday school, on the salaries of clergy and workers. Therefore, candles should be purchased only in the temple where a person came to pray. You can’t bring candles bought outside the walls of the temple with you and put them in front of the icons, because they may not be consecrated.

Since the level of well-being of believers is different, they can donate different means. An expensive big candle is not at all more beneficial than a small one. It is better to put down a small one with humility and pray fervently than with grumbling and regret - dear one. And remember at the same time that the most important thing is the burning of a believing heart. If there is no ardent love and reverence in us, then candles have no meaning, our sacrifice is in vain.

So, where and to whom of the saints to put candles is up to you. But it is desirable to keep order. If you are going to put several candles, then the first one must be put to the Lord Jesus Christ and in front of the icon of the holiday (usually it is always located in the center of the temple on the lectern). Then a candle is placed to the Mother of God, then to the Archangel and the saints, to whom the Lord has given special grace to heal illnesses and help us in various needs.

It is customary to put candles to the saint, whose name a person bears, and to the Guardian Angel.

For the repose of the dead, you should put a candle on the eve - a special rectangular candlestick with the Crucifixion.

If the desired icon is not in the temple, then you can put a candle in front of any image of the Lord, the Most Holy Theotokos or in front of the icon of All Saints and pray. And pray in your own words, as long as they are sincere. Let the clear fire of candles help build a warm, bright prayer in your heart!

It is good to light church candles and houses in the red corner, in front of the icons. Candles and lamps are lit not only while reading the morning and evening prayer rules, but also when solving important life problems (choosing a life partner, choosing a profession, getting a job, purchasing a house, a car, etc.), when we are overcome by illness, sorrow, sadness, or with the obvious action of demonic forces on a person.

During the Six Psalms (when a reader enters the middle of the temple and all the lamps are extinguished in the temple), the candles are extinguished. But after the end of this reading, the candles are lit again. Therefore, having placed your candle during this period of time, one should not look for any bad sign in this, let alone swear.

About candles in questions and answers

How to place a candle correctly?

- Candles are lit one from the other, burning, and put in the nest of the candlestick. The candle must stand straight. It is FORBIDDEN to use matches and lighters in the temple if there are already burning candles in the candlesticks of the temple. You should not light a candle from a lamp, so as not to drip wax into the oil or accidentally extinguish the lamp.

Who and how many candles should be placed?

- There are no binding rules on where and how much to put candles. Their purchase is a voluntary sacrifice to God. First of all, it’s good to put a candle to the “holiday” (central lectern) or a revered temple icon, then to the relics of the saint (if they are in the temple), and only then - about health (to any icon) or repose (on the eve - square or rectangular table with a crucifix).

Is it possible to put a candle on a candlestick if there is nowhere to put it?

- That's how it should be done. In extreme cases, you can light the wick of a candle, extinguish it and put it on a candlestick. Those who put two candles in one cell or take off someone else's candle to put their own do it wrong.

Is it possible to hold a burning candle in your hand and stand with it?

– With lit candles, it is customary to stand at the memorial service, during the divine service of Matins of the Great Heel. Candles are also lit on polyeleos, but this tradition has mainly been preserved only for the clergy. A burning candle must be handled carefully: make sure that the wax does not drip onto the floor, and that the clothes and hair of the person standing in front do not accidentally ignite. The rest of the time it is more correct to put a candle on a candlestick, which is specially designed for this. In the temple, you must follow the established order, and not do as you like.

To whom to put a candle for the remission of sins and what to read at the same time?

- Sins are forgiven only at Confession after a sincere, detailed confession of all of them in the presence of a priest and the reading of a permissive prayer by him. A candle is a symbol, in itself it does not free from sins and does not connect with God.

Is it possible to put a candle on an unbaptized newborn baby who is sick?

- You can pray for the unbaptized with your personal prayer and light candles for them, you can’t just write their names in church notes, since the Church does not pray for the unbaptized. A sick child should be baptized as soon as possible. If the child is seriously ill, you can call the priest home or to the hospital. In the Sacrament of Baptism, the child will receive a special grace that will help him. If a child dies unbaptized, there will be sin on the parents. And a baptized child can be given communion, ordered magpies, prayers for health - this is the first aid in illnesses.

Can you light a candle for yourself?

- Of course, you can put candles and pray for your health. A candle is a symbol of prayer appeal to God. And most of the prayers are written in the first person.

Is it possible for a pregnant woman to put candles for the dead?

– Everyone can and should put candles and pray for the departed.

Is it possible to light a candle for the tragically deceased and in general for the repose of the unbaptized?

- You can put candles and pray for the unbaptized yourself, but you can’t submit notes with the names of the unbaptized in the temple.

Is it possible to put candles about health and repose on Easter?

- You can always put candles for health and repose, but the Church does not perform prayers for the dead on Easter and on Bright Week, they are transferred to Radonitsa - the second Tuesday after Easter.

Is it possible to put candles bought in another temple?

- Candles are usually purchased in the temple where they come to pray - this is a small sacrifice to this particular temple.

What to do with a candle after the consecration of Easter cakes and eggs? Can you take it home?

- You can take it home and light it during home prayer, or you can put it in the temple in front of any icon.

When is incense used and can it be used at home?

- Frankincense is used in the Church during divine services, as well as during the funeral of the dead, during the consecration of dwellings by a priest. You can also use incense during home prayer.

Some churches collect donations for a common candle. What it is?

- The tradition of raising funds for a common candle is not in all churches. As a rule, the collected funds are spent on the purchase of candles, which are placed on candlesticks and burn when there is no one in the temples. There is another tradition, when a large wax candle is purchased for a candlestick, which is taken out at certain moments of the service.

I read prayers every morning at home. The church candle, which I light at the same time for two days, began to crackle strongly (crack like a log in a fire, only a little quieter) What is it?

- There is nothing wrong with that, this often happens, and this is due to the technology for the production of candles. There is no mysticism in this.

I am left-handed, since childhood I do everything with my left hand, my parents retrained some things from childhood, for example, to write with my right hand, just like when I go to church, when I need to cross myself, I do it with my right hand, sometimes when I light a candle, it happens with my left hand. I couldn’t hear with my left hand, and I read a lot and everywhere it is written that the left is, as it were, everything is bad.

“Pay no attention to these stupid superstitions. You can put candles with your right and left hand, there is no difference.

I am not baptized. My parents died, they were not baptized either. Can I put candles in the church for their repose?

- Yes, you can light candles with a prayer for the repose of the souls of your parents. But you cannot submit notes about their repose to the altar, as well as order memorial services and sing them.

Tell me, please, how to light a church candle in the temple? In one church, I lit a candle from another candle, and they told me that it was impossible to do this, because it was someone else's victim, and it is not known with what thoughts the person lit it. The next time I lit a candle from a lamp. Again they made a remark to me, they said that it was impossible to do this. How to light a candle correctly?

- A candle is lit from another candle standing on a candlestick. It does not matter who and with what thoughts lit the candle from which you will light yours. These are all superstitions, do not pay attention to them. You can light, if necessary (when there are no candles lit on the candlestick), a candle from the lamp, but they try not to do this so that the wax does not get into the lamp. This also has not a symbolic, but a purely practical explanation - the lampada then needs to be cleaned of wax, both outside and inside, so it's better not to get dirty.

My mother died a little more than 2 months, she was Orthodox, I am a Muslim. Mom was buried as it should be according to Orthodox customs. My relatives are all Orthodox, and everything they did in the church and beyond, they did, and I took part in it. I prayed and I pray for her soul. Tell me, how is it correct in my case to commemorate my mother, can I put candles in the church for her myself? Maybe something else? And for some reason, my mother dreams of being sick ...

Please accept my sincere condolences on the death of your mother. You are doing the right thing by praying for your mother. Yes, you can put candles yourself with a prayer for the repose of her soul. Also do in memory of your mother all possible alms, any good deeds. Usually the fact that we dream of the dead means that they need our prayers for them.

My grandmother died yesterday... A person I love very much. I want to do something, go to church… It's very hard. Tell me, please, when and how to put a candle for the dead and what else should be done in such cases?

Please accept my sincere condolences on the death of your grandmother. If your grandmother was baptized, order a magpie for the repose of her soul, arrange a funeral service (how to do this, you will be prompted behind a candle box - this is a place where notes are accepted and candles are sold). On the ninth and fortieth day, order memorial services. If the grandmother was unbaptized, light a candle and pray in your own words, asking the Lord to forgive her grandmother for her sins and save her soul. In any case, it is good to give all possible alms for the grandmother, to do good deeds in her memory. Candles for the repose of the dead are placed on the canon - this is usually a rectangular candlestick with a crucifix (ask to show where the canon is when you purchase candles).

For the third year now I have been taking part in the sacrament of unction during Great Lent. In previous years, parishioners always took a candle with them, so that later, if necessary, they could pray with this candle for health. But my friend says that it is better to leave this candle in the church, explaining that there are many unhealthy people at the service during the Unction, and the candle absorbs all the negativity, and when used again, it will no longer benefit, but harm. If so, please answer?

- No, this is a superstition: a candle does not absorb any negativity, and in itself does not bring any harm or benefit. We benefit from prayer, not from a candle. You can take a candle home, you can leave it in the temple - it doesn’t matter: traditions can be different, and both are acceptable. God bless you!

My friend's mother is very sick, they are Muslims, can I put a candle in church for her health?

— Yes, you can light a candle with a prayer for the health of your friend's mother.

Good afternoon. I live in Germany and there is no Orthodox church in our city. I would like to know if the Orthodox can put candles in the Catholic Church? And if so, how to do it without the presence of icons (for example, the Archangel Michael, John the Warrior or St. Panteleimon, etc.)?

Of course, you can put candles in a Catholic church. If there are no icons in the temple, just pray to the saint to whom you would like to put a candle. But to participate in the sacraments, you will need to travel to Berlin: there are two Orthodox churches there: the cathedral church in honor of the Resurrection of Christ and the church of Sts. Constantine and Elena.

I buy large candles from the church, light them for prayer times at home, and then blow them out until the next time. Can this be done or does it have to burn to the end?

- Yes, candles can be blown out after the prayers are finished and lit again next time.

Today I was at the Danilovsky cemetery, visited the grave of the Blessed Matrona. I wanted to ask and pray, in the church shop I took candles, an icon and an akathist to the Blessed to read at the grave. When I finished reading the akathist and went up to pick up my icon, I noticed the candle that I put, its upper part was bent in half, there were strong drips of wax on the candle. This alarmed me, and when I left, my candle was removed, apparently so that people would not be frightened. What does this mean?

No need for superstition, dear worshiper!

My question is this: is it possible to light a candle bought in a simple store for prayer at home, or does it have to be a candle purchased in a church?

The main thing is that the candle be bought in a church institution (a church utensils store (for example, Sofrino, Candlemas stores), a temple, etc.).

Hello! I am a Muslim, in our family there are also Orthodox, through whom I joined the Christian religion. Arriving at one of the churches, I wanted to light a candle to THE MOTHER OF GOD, but the novice, having learned that I was not baptized, explained that my prayers might not be fully heard and it would be better to put a candle to NICHOLAS, and through him, supposedly, all prayers would reach, right? this is!

She was not a novice, for novitiates are in monasteries. This is the first. Further, ONLY PRIESTS have real knowledge in the church field. This is important to understand. Third. To whom and how to put candles should be “more visible” to the pilgrims themselves. Do not be embarrassed, what happened to you is a common situation, the root of which is the wrong addressing of the question - talk to the clergy more often.

I have such a question, I am not baptized, my mother-in-law at home cleaned me with a church candle, and a slightly darkened bulge formed on my candle. What does this mean?

This means that you and your mother-in-law are passionate about magic.

Please tell me what to do with the candles that remain after Easter?

Light it up and let it burn.

Is it possible to pray and light candles for those who are not baptized?

You can light candles and pray yourself for those who have not been baptized, but church prayer for them is impossible: you can submit notes in the church for the Liturgy, prayers and memorial services only for Orthodox Christians.

Please explain which side (right or left) should be the crucifix in the church, where you can put candles for repose? In some churches on the right, in others on the left, some priests say that candles are placed only on the left for repose. Is it considered a sin to put candles for repose on the wrong side.

Kanun (a candlestick where candles are placed for repose) can be located both on the left and on the right. It has no fundamental significance. Moreover, there is no sin to put candles "on the wrong side."

One of our acquaintances said that she had put candles for us in the temple for relaxation. I've never heard of this, can you please explain what it means?

In Orthodoxy, candles are placed only with a prayer for health or repose. The prayers said at the same time may be different. Indulgence is called the weakening of the disease, a difficult situation. Apparently, this is what your friend prayed for when she lit a candle for health.

My husband and I have candles with which we were crowned in the church. Maybe they need to be used somehow? What meaning do they carry now after 22 years of marriage?

There is such a pious tradition that spouses keep wedding candles at home near the icons, or in another pious place.
A candle is a symbol of your common prayer, your marriage union. Candles can be lit for prayer on some special days for you, the days of the anniversary of marriage, on the days of other joyful or sad events.
If you do not need candles, you can simply give them to the nearest temple.

When a priest consecrates a house, or we ourselves feel the need to cleanse and protect it after the consecration, we do this with the help of prayer and holy water. This is written about, and we can see this in the temple. However, there is another action: go around the house with a lit candle and a prayer, baptizing the walls, windows and doors. Instead of water - a candle, fire. Probably, in a temple with a crowd of people, it is simply dangerous to walk with lit candles. And they don't do it in the temple. Please explain if there is a difference between these actions, what determines the choice between water and a candle, are there any prohibitions on one or the other.

The Church does not know such a thing as "cleansing the house." There is a consecration performed by a priest and whose rank is in the Trebnik. The sprinkling of holy water by the residents of the house themselves is quite acceptable and appropriate on certain days. So, for example, on Epiphany Christmas Eve, according to tradition, they sprinkle houses with holy water brought from the temple. However, this is not in the nature of some kind of “cleansing” or “protection”. And from what or from whom, in fact, are you going to cleanse or defend yourself? As for “walking around the house with a candle,” this is semi-occult folk art that has nothing to do with Orthodox rituals.

Tell me, please, a candle is lit from another candle standing on a candlestick. But what to do when there are no burning candles nearby? I lit a candle from a lamp, but then my lamp went out. From ignorance and lack of knowledge, we were very afraid of how to act, and my husband lit the lamp himself - with a lighter. At that time, we did not understand that this could not be done. Tell me, please, all our wrong actions, where are the superstitions, and where is the real prohibition of behavior in the church, what would this mean. How can you correct your guilt? How to act in such cases. This question worries me a lot.

Do not worry, your husband did nothing forbidden, you do not need to fix anything. When there are no burning candles on the candlestick, a candle can be lit from a lamp or from a candle standing on another candlestick, from a lamp in front of another icon. In some churches, candles are asked not to be lit between services, they are simply placed on a candlestick, and they are lit during worship. If necessary, use a lighter to light a candle, it is quite acceptable.

Just came from the temple, the whole soul is bubbling. How to relate to the transfer of candles during the Liturgy? Ignore? Disrupt prayer? And if you take it, then I will definitely not pass it on to others during the Symbol of Faith ... But it’s not good to refuse either. And if you wait for a “break”, I can forget to whom: they pass a lot, 7-8-10 candles reached me today. And so it stood with full handfuls. What to do?! When can candles be sent? Do I need to take them from other people? And if so, when?

Of course, it is wrong to distract from prayer with a request to pass a candle. But it is wrong and so ardently to condemn people, coming from the church after the Liturgy with a "bubbling" soul. At the end of the Liturgy, we sing "Let our lips be filled with Your praise, O Lord," and not "the condemnation of others." At the Liturgy, the most important moments are the Small Entrance, the reading of the Apostle and the Gospel, the Great Entrance, the Eucharistic Canon. At this time, the candle can be taken, but do not disturb the other with a request to pass it on. And you can try to stand in a place so that you do not have to pass the candles, or look for some other way out. But don't let anger and judgment get the better of you. Help you Lord!

Is it possible to buy wax candles online (much cheaper) and use them for home prayer and reading the Bible and spiritual literature? How to bless these candles? When visiting a temple or church, I buy candles from that particular church or temple.

Theoretically, it is possible if you are sure that you order candles in an Orthodox store (temple), and do not bring income to scammers. In this case, there is no need to consecrate them; what is bought in the temple is previously consecrated.

A relative of my husband quite often gives me candles from the temple! But there are some suspicions towards this person and some anxiety that these candles are not for good! The soul is uncomfortable, and there is no desire to light them! Can a person through a candle negatively influence another? What is the best way to deal with these candles? If you do not take them at all, then, I am afraid, they will not understand me and will be offended!

And how can there be candles from the temple "not for good"? Logically, we can assume that the church is planning something evil against you. Sounds funny, doesn't it? If you don't like something, tell the person about it. After all, the whole problem is precisely from the fact that there is no clarity in the relationship. As you clarify, everything will immediately fall into place and the candles from the temple will no longer frighten.

Once I heard on television that if you light a candle for the health of an enemy, then God will punish the offender. I think not every person will be able to forgive the enemy enough to sincerely wish him happiness. Is this superstition, or is it revenge?

This is both superstition and stupidity at the same time. You can put ten candles, it is unlikely that the wax that has melted from the temperature will somehow harm your offender. This does not mean that there is no point in lighting candles, but with such a formulation of the question, this action loses its full spiritual meaning and becomes a meaningless action.
You are right, not everyone can forgive their enemy, but everyone can refrain from at least wishing him harm. You need to pray not for God to punish the offender, but first of all for admonishing the enemies and resolving the situation in the way that pleases the Lord.

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Good evening. Girls, I don't know what to do. I hope only for help and useful advice.

This morning I was running around on business, having managed with my own, I went with my sister to the hospital. Passing by the church, we decided to go in. I took the number of the priest (I need to solve something with him), I wanted to see the chains with crosses. And then I saw incense, I began to think whether I should take it or not and saw such a box

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A woman who works in a church shop explained to me that when a person comes with bad intentions, after he leaves, you need to go through the apartment with them (the negative is removed, etc.). Bought and came home. It was then that it all started ... I note that I was gone for half a day, I came home at 14-14.30

I go out into the kitchen and hear how my neighbor (a 2-room communal apartment, in the first we live with the children, in the second my own grandfather by father, who has been drinking all his life) is talking to someone. Again, the thought in my head that I again brought someone from the drunks, that he was tired of it, that there is no calm life, and so on, in my head the thought that as soon as I see him I will talk with him right away about the police, which now I will always call on any of his guests. (We suffer like this for 9 years, from the moment I got married and moved here, where I now live).

The time is approaching 5 and I’m going to the garden for my son, I hear the front door open but not slam and I hear his voice ... Then I go out and watch the picture ... He comes out from the neighbors whom you come in for about 2 minutes and asks me: "An, tell me .. I was sleeping. I open my eyes, and an old man and a guy of your (that is, my) age are sitting in my room. I suggest that they lie down, feed them ... but they sat as they sat ... Higher in toilet, locked the door, went back into the room, but they weren't there... How could they get out through the closed door???" I'm trying to understand what he's trying to explain to me, and I understand... he has glitches... he drank without drying out for about a month... Then he says, a woman comes into the room. The door is closed, she comes in and stands against the left wall from the entrance to the corner and begins to pray, he asks her what her name is, she didn’t answer, she turned back to the wall and began to pray ... Further, it’s even worse ... in general, I look at the clock and I understand that now I will be late for the garden, I remember about the candles that I bought today and say that I will come and go around the room with them. I left, and he hugged the bottle and closed himself ...

I came home, I take out candles, a stand for them ... I think I’ll have a smoke and go ... I go in, and he shows me a woman, and proves that she is lying on his bed ... Girls, it became so creepy ... I say: "So let's give you a candle?" to which she replies “No need” ... and leaves ... went about her business, put a candle on the table (about 3-4 cm from the edge). then spun, spun, and I never removed it. A friend came and told her about her neighbor... we started talking... and... For some reason, I leaned over and the candle fell... It broke in half. A friend (who works in the ritual said that it’s bad to keep black candles at home, that the fact that she split is also bad ...

Girls, tell me... I'm almost in a panic... Is this a pure coincidence? or does it mean something??? What to do? I already got ordinary candles, holy water, I’m looking for what prayers to read ...

Nowadays, there are many exclusive decorative candles made of beeswax and artificial paraffin, which would become not only pleasant gifts, but also interior decorations. Find out what candles you can give, if there are any special signs about them.

Is it possible to give candles made of wax?

Wax is a magical material that can absorb and accumulate any energy. It is wax candles that are used in various magical rituals; magical volts are molded from this material. Because of this, a negative attitude of the people towards wax candles developed, they became.

It is believed that it is impossible to give them because the manufacturer of candles can put negative energy into them. And as soon as the wax begins to melt, during combustion, everything bad that was contained in it begins to stand out.

Previously, women were engaged in making candles at home, and therefore, if a candle was given to a lonely man, then they tried to bewitch him in a similar way.

Psychics partially share popular opinion and its fears. They claim that you can quickly understand whether a gift is charged with good or bad energy. You need to light a candle. If it starts to smoke, crackle, the flame fluctuates, exudes an unpleasant smell, it can even go out for no reason - this is a bad sign, you need to get rid of the candle, take it to a wasteland and bury it.

A high, even flame, a pleasant smell indicate a gift charged with good energy. Such a candle will be very useful, as it is able to burn the energy debris in the room (anger, tension, hatred, envy). Light it during the illness of the recipient - this will speed up recovery, destroy fears and illnesses.

Church candles as a gift

One of the most controversial gifts ever.

On the one hand, lit candles are often used by sorcerers, and if a person brings church candles to your house, you won’t immediately determine whether he did something bad with them or not. Perhaps this person lit it in the temple, prayed all his illnesses and problems for her, after which he took it and brought it to you.

On the other hand, consecrated things bought in the temple are charged with very positive energy, which can influence a person for a long time. Such a large candle when burning will have a positive effect on the life of the recipient as a whole.

Therefore, it is safe to say just that such things should be taken from the hands of people whom you trust, and who definitely could not perform a bad ritual.

Modern decorative candles as a gift

The world does not stand still and in the twenty-first century paraffin, gel candles are popular, and wax candles are almost nowhere to be found. But does the negative sign apply to things made from unnatural, but artificial material?

Psychics assure that artificial material cannot adversely affect the life of the recipient. All due to the fact that it is impossible to “write down” a negative program on paraffin or gel. So the ancient superstitions regarding candles are relevant only for wax attributes.

It is best to present a gift to close relatives. Yes, and it is better to accept such a thing only from those family members whom you trust. If we talk directly about etiquette, then a nice present will be for the people with whom you are on a "short leg" and those who collect them. Since it is unlikely that your strict boss will appreciate a cute candle made in the form of some kind of animal.

Be careful with aroma candles. Some of them have such a strong smell that they can cause headaches, suffocation, even allergic reactions. Therefore, in order not to be considered a person who, with the help of a candle, caused damage and worsened the health of the recipient, approach the choice of a gift very seriously.

Candles for the family hearth

Often people adhere to a beautiful tradition, when the so-called “Family Hearth” is lit at a wedding. In this case, three candles are used in the composition (one large symbolizing the newlyweds and two thin ones indicating two families, parents), they are decorated with lace, ribbons, rhinestones, beads.

Usually they try to stylize the hearth so that in general the composition looks like a heart, rings, a house. It is very important that the candles of the parents are of the same color, size and shape, as they have made an equal contribution to the new family.

Therefore, if you are invited to a wedding, you can take the initiative and prepare such a wedding hearth for the young.

To date, most candles are made from non-natural materials, in factories, so such a gift can hardly be regarded as negative, cursed. However, if you do decide to give someone a candle, make sure the gift is relevant and desirable.

Believers come to church as a place where they can purify their thoughts, soul, and some go only on major holidays. But there is a category of people who come to this bright place to throw off their misfortunes on others or from their anger to bring damage to the more successful.

No matter how outrageous it may sound, but in the church you can run into a witch or an energy vampire. We will talk about important points that you need to consider while in the temple in order to protect yourself and loved ones from possible misfortunes.

How to behave in church
Before entering the church, you can give alms to beggars, while you need to say to yourself: “Let the hand of the giver not be impoverished.” At the exit, this is not worth doing, because along with the money you give away what you came for, what you asked from the Lord and the saints.
It is possible to recognize witches and sorcerers. While in a church or its surrounding area, pay attention to the people who are standing around you. Witches and sorcerers try to cross their fingers or hands themselves so that the left hand rests on the right hand. In the temple, they stand in such a way that their backs are always covered from the altar. And they try to leave the church as slowly as possible and with their backs.

Another important point: in the church they can go around you counterclockwise and poke you with your hand, then stand behind you to suck out your energy. If this happens, then immediately, without hesitation, touch this person with your left hand so that the damage goes back.
Also, special attention should be paid to candles, because it is with their help that witches often perform their rituals. This is very important, especially on the eve of Easter, when millions of people will light them.

How to use church candles correctly
Many beginners do not know where to put a lit candle. A witch or sorcerer will definitely try to approach such a person with advice. They say to a person: "Put a candle and leave the church backwards." If you do that, you will bring harm on yourself.

In the temple, you can not light a candle from matches or a lighter, only from a lamp that burns in the center. In no case do not light your candle from those nearby, so as not to drag other people's problems onto yourself. Also, don't let others set fire to yours, lest they take away your happiness.

Do not leave your candle, which you set for good, until more than half of it burns out. Extinguish the candle yourself and do it only with your fingers, and do not blow it out.

Pay attention to such a moment: you lit a candle, moved away from it, and she suddenly smoked. Don't be lazy and look at your feet. You can stand on a damn needle.

When you put a candle for health in front of the icon of some saint and start to pray, then do not allow outsiders to rearrange it. Make sure that your candle is not extinguished or that another candle is not put in its cell. So usually they want to spoil.

And finally. The following situation may arise: you are walking down the street near the church, and a dear granny comes up to you and asks you to count the number of domes. Do not do that! Near the one-domed Orthodox church they throw loneliness, at the three-headed one they throw anxiety, fears, problems with the law, at the five-domed one - various diseases.

Crossing the threshold of a church temple, a person tunes in to the purification of the soul and getting rid of bad thoughts. Many oblige themselves to attend festive services, but there are people whose visit is full of malice and deceit. These envious and ill-wishers come to a holy place to bring damage to successful rivals, or bring down grief on others.

Alas, it is disgusting to believe the presence of a witch or a vampire stealing your energy in the church, but it happens. There are ways to protect yourself that can protect you from possible troubles. Don't forget to protect your loved ones.

How to behave in church

With the words “Let the hand of the giver not fail,” give alms at the church porch to the one who asks, but only before visiting. You should not repeat the alms when leaving, for you will give back what you received in the temple from the Lord and the saints.

It is possible to recognize witches and sorcerers. While in a church or its surrounding area, pay attention to the people who are standing around you. Witches and sorcerers try to cross their fingers or hands themselves so that the left hand rests on the right hand. In the temple, they stand in such a way that their backs are always covered from the altar. And they try to leave the church as slowly as possible and with their backs.

Another important point: in the church they can go around you counterclockwise and poke you with your hand, then stand behind you to suck out your energy. If this happens, then immediately, without hesitation, touch this person with your left hand so that the damage goes back.

Also, special attention should be paid to candles, because it is with their help that witches often perform their rituals. This is very important, especially on the eve of Easter, when millions of people will light them.

How to use church candles correctly

Many beginners do not know where to put a lit candle. A witch or sorcerer will definitely try to approach such a person with advice. They say to a person: "Put a candle and leave the church backwards." If you do that, you will bring harm on yourself.

In the temple, you can not light a candle from matches or a lighter, only from a lamp that burns in the center. In no case do not light your candle from those nearby, so as not to drag other people's problems onto yourself. Also, don't let others set fire to yours, lest they take away your happiness.

Do not leave your candle, which you set for good, until more than half of it burns out.

Extinguish the candle yourself and do it only with your fingers, and do not blow it out.

Pay attention to such a moment: you lit a candle, moved away from it, and she suddenly smoked. Don't be lazy and look at your feet. You can stand on a damn needle.

When you put a candle for health in front of the icon of some saint and start to pray, then do not allow outsiders to rearrange it.

Make sure that your candle is not extinguished or that another candle is not put in its cell. So usually they want to spoil.

And finally. The following situation may arise: you are walking down the street near the church, and a dear granny comes up to you and asks you to count the number of domes. Do not do that! Near the one-domed Orthodox Church they throw loneliness, at the three-headed one they throw anxiety, fears, problems with the law, at the five-headed one - various diseases.