Revenge is a manifestation of a negative feeling. The feeling of retribution requires satisfaction and blood
As you can see, the characteristics and manifestations of Revenge require a painstaking description, even in a concise formulation of this concept.
Manifestations and properties of Revenge
Vengefulness is the back reaction of a sickly and overly inflated Egoism and Pride of a person, to satisfy the feeling of Retribution. Revenge does not know how to forgive and is intolerant of other people's behavior, it sometimes reacts to the most far-fetched stimuli. As a vivid form of manifestation of Pride, vindictiveness does not recognize the right of others to be different. Vengefulness is smart and unusually inventive for unexpected cunning tricks and dirty tricks.
Vengefulness, very often, accompanies a property of a person's character as Obsession. One main thought, the Purpose and the Object of their passion, with complete Obsession, drill into the brain of a vengeful person. See how many strong words are in this sentence. So terrible is revenge, which takes extreme forms.
Having endowed another person with the property of Evil, Vengeance is offended when he does not behave the way she would like. The exit of another from the zone of her control becomes a reason first for resentment, and then for hatred, anger and revenge.
Manifestation Formula: Retaliation > Resentment > Hatred > Anger > Revenge > Unforgiveness > Grudge > Intransigence
Vindictiveness is a constant, timeless desire not only to return to the offender the pain and suffering experienced, but also to inflict even greater destruction. As the Vengeful Man says, debt by payment is red. connection with unforgiveness, vindictiveness, intransigence is based on the feeling of Retribution.
The feeling of Retribution requires satisfaction and blood!
Who are the Vengeful People?
Vindictiveness is inherent in insecure and dissatisfied people, with low self-esteem and a weak Inner Self. Through vindictiveness, they try to prove to themselves and the world their own importance and significance. Very often the cause of vindictiveness is banal envy or jealousy. This is a particularly difficult case, because the objects of envy and jealousy are constantly changing, and the Vengeful person remains in a static position and does not develop as a person. Vindictiveness is quick to draw conclusions from situations, and does not bother to analyze the situation or events in depth.
It is not always the correct conclusion about whether the insult, insult or inconvenience caused is really so large-scale that it is necessary to make the thought of revenge the main one. Revenge is short-sighted and does not even look into the future, what will be the result of revenge.
End of Vengeance
A person who has been severely harmed is able to return to a normal state of mind either from unconditional forgiveness or from merciless retribution and satisfaction.
Vindictiveness loses its power where a person is able to understand and forgive, think about the future, start caring, respecting and loving others, but that's another story. This is the story of a man with a question of the Self itself. As a man who lacks a Strong Rod, and lacks education, vindictiveness without hesitation chooses a short-lasting emotion of satisfaction.
This is the essence of its nature, instinct and emotion. Revenge is often accompanied by character traits such as Moody, Anger and Suspiciousness.
A person with such a combination of such qualities of character will cross any forbidden levels, he is ready to avenge any offense, real or imaginary. Revenge justifies itself: "When you are deprived of everything that you love, there is only one thing left - revenge"
Very often, Vengefulness has no statute of limitations and turns into a lifelong illness. A person who has fallen under its influence, as if possessed, thinks only of revenge.
If you want to rejoice for a moment - take revenge, if you want to rejoice all your life - I'm sorry
Consequences of Vengeance
First, a feeling of Indignation starts, similar to an internal explosion caused by resentment, envy or jealousy. Pride is hurt, which includes selfishness and vindictiveness.
When a person shows vindictiveness, changes occur in his body in the form of a hormonal burst of Adrenaline.
Egoism completely blocks sending painful signals of Reason and consciousness. The devilish fire of Vengeance flares up inside the person. Plans for revenge are brewing. A person is no longer his own master, being completely dependent on his manifested vindictiveness of Evil and the Beast inside.
A vengeful person devours himself, stops seeing the sun in the sky, becomes an embittered negativist, loses the possibility of personal growth, loses the meaning of life and health.
At the same time, Vengefulness is weak in effectiveness, constantly being in the mode of exhaustion and consumption of human strength. A stronger step as a similar response or stronger is Forgiveness. To forgive means to be stronger. To forgive means to give the deed to the judgment of the Higher powers.
Indifference is not an option
It can cope completely, with the feeling of Revenge, or not let it manifest itself, only the feeling and strength of Indifference can, it will either forgive or simply ignore the offender, but if these are not extreme forms of Indifference.
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/ / / What is revenge?
Revenge is an action that is caused by the desire to respond to an insult, insult or other harm. Human nature is like a bomb that is ready to explode, one has only to “light the fuse”. And it explodes just revenge. The desire to take revenge arises in different ways: for some - suddenly, instantly, for others - some time after the offense. They also prepare for revenge in different ways. Some people immediately give an answer, while others take a long time to plan actions, carefully consider it.
Nevertheless, no matter how the desire for revenge manifests itself, revenge remains one of the most terrible phenomena in human life. You can take revenge in different ways: insult in response, put a person in an awkward position, set him up. The most cruel, inhuman revenge is murder. Often the desire to give a "worthy" answer pushes to a crime. Often a desire to kill appears in a person if someone seriously offended or even took the life of one of his relatives.
Serious psychological upheavals caused by the loss of relatives, serious moral or moral trauma deprive a person of the opportunity to reason soberly. His mind seems to turn off, but his heart is instantly filled with anger and a thirst to answer the offender with the same, or even worse. And only having avenged, the person understands what he has done. Few people are proud of the perfect, because someone's blood remains on their hands, and there are stains of vile deeds on their conscience.
The question of what revenge is can be found in fiction. Quite a few writers have raised this issue to show what paying for an offense can lead to, how it affects the fate of those who take revenge.
The protagonist of the novel F.I. Dostoevsky's Crime and Punishment, a student kills an old pawnbroker. His cruel act is nothing but revenge. The guy lives very poorly, renting a small room under the roof with the last money. He receives letters from his mother telling him how the family is trying to make ends meet. In the city, the guy meets the Marmeladov family. He learns that the stepmother sent Sonya, Marmeladov's daughter, to the panel, since she did not think of another way to make money.
Raskolnikov is indignant at seeing such injustice around him. His indignation gradually develops into a thirst for revenge. The guy believes that such mercenary people as the old pawnbroker are to blame for everything. He is confident that her money will be able to help hundreds of young people. He has a desire to kill the old woman, which gradually increases. The hero does what he wants to do.
Soon a sober mind returns to the guy. By nature, kind, Raskolnikov sincerely repents of his deed. He feels alienated from society. Sonya, who understands the motives for his revenge, helps the hero find peace of mind.
Thus, revenge is a cruel response to any harm. The desire to take revenge seizes both the mind and the heart of a person. You need to be able to control yourself so as not to stain your hands and soul with vile deeds.
Do not rush to take revenge yourself. Look how beautiful life will make it.
What is revenge?
Revenge. Be sure to voice this side of our lives. Oh, how often it occurs, and how many wonderful people stumbled on this matter.
Well, let's start with the energy component of this process.
If you have read the materials above, you can already easily determine what kind of force it is that makes a person take revenge. Naturally, this FEAR. See what forms this very fear can take, the most seemingly noble ones.
Most often, what formulations does the feeling of revenge take? FIGHT FOR JUSTICE and so on and so forth.
It would seem that the feelings are correct and there is nothing wrong with this matter. But what happens to a person when he begins to realize these "noble feelings".
It all starts with a powerful attack of indignation, a kind of internal explosion, when events occur that are unexpected, unplanned, unfair. That is, in a person, the mechanisms for isolating a huge amount of negativity are automatically turned on.
Well, I don’t like it, I didn’t expect it, it hurt the most sacred.
Okay, we survived this state, if the heart and other internal organs survived. Often, however, it happens the other way around, this explosion leads to very deplorable events in the body.
Well, Validol saved, valerian and cognac got drunk. What's next? And then, if this force is not controlled, it continues their actions. And what does it mean? As a rule - in a great desire to make the most negative impact on the cause of events, as a rule, the person who did it all. And the stronger and deeper the events, the stronger and more significant the desired punishment.
If you just stepped on your foot in the subway, we just want to scold, no more, and that will be enough. If more, he stole money, then let yourself spend five years in prison, sip gruel. Well, if it comes to causing damage to health or life, then the mechanism for the complete destruction of this object is automatically activated.
And if in the subway you can immediately solve this issue, overlaid it and went on (however, inside, as if the cats had gone to the toilet), then more serious matters require additional time, effort and various new participants.
And what is happening. A person does not live a normal life, he becomes a carrier, a vessel full of anger, and until the desired is fulfilled, this anger and hatred will continue its comfortable existence in the body and mind of a person.
One of the exact words that describes this human condition is the word GLOAT, this is when a person rejoices in this very evil.
Moreover, they heard the expression “sweet revenge”, oh, what a sweet feeling it is, and a person really experiences some feeling of “sweetness”.
Just the other day I was talking to a man, smart and educated, who, in all seriousness, said that this feeling of sweet revenge for him is much higher than the feeling of love. This is how the process can turn around, this man had his son's car hit to death a couple of years ago, and he devoted these years to the realization of revenge.
Literally before our eyes, a person turns into a blind weapon. He is no longer able to objectively look from the outside at himself, at his actions, at his surroundings. A kind of blinders have formed before his eyes, like those of horses, he sees a narrow corridor of necessary actions, besides this, he does not want anything else, and over the years, he is no longer able to see, that's all.
Here it is, a rather dramatic, but very revealing example of how a person becomes completely controlled by the negative camp. Just give them, they immediately create the necessary conditions for this.
This is all from the point of view of good and evil, and now let's look from the point of view of the Universal Laws.
First - - if your body and mind are full of negativity, then nothing but negativity you won't get in return, thereby creating a vicious circle for the occurrence of various kinds of negative deviations in the work of your body and your affairs.
It is very difficult to be near such a person, and gradually, all the people who were dear to you and close will simply forced to leave you. They want to live, and if only negative things stand out from you, then the process of rejection will automatically start.
There can be no talk of any development with such an attitude, only the destruction of what is, and the replacement of the lowest and most unnecessary.
Health, you understand, it will work for a certain time, but if the process drags on, then apart from negative changes, it is unlikely that anything can happen.
Second, you become impractical, from the point of view of the development of the world, you are the carrier of destructive energy. You will be needed for some time, but by negative forces, until your potential starts to run out. The very forces that were laid down for the growth and development of you as a Human.
- if your potential is great enough and you can do your job, take revenge in full, then further, if you do not want to stop and start putting yourself in order, and this will be very difficult to do, then you will be offered new business, where you can highlight the negative and do "restoration of justice", a good sword will always come in handy, and so on until the potential runs out.
Revenge is not an easy topic, is it? In fact, it is not as simple as the topic. These two unpleasant concepts (phenomena) are directly interconnected with each other. After all, revenge is almost always the result of resentment. If you recall one of the definitions of resentment, it sounds like this - "a - this is an unspoken obligation to take revenge." And almost always, if a person cannot cope with his resentment, he consciously or automatically realizes it through revenge.
Revenge can be different, from harmless pranks, to plant a button, to distort information, etc., to a vendetta, when, as a result of an unforgiven insult between two proud fools and an uncontrollable desire for revenge, warriors are unleashed and thousands of innocent people die. Revenge, like resentment, is a bad adviser, not a sage and not a friend. Revenge is a destroyer, and not infrequently very fast and ruthless, like a black tornado that destroys all life in its path. The fact that people building relationships could painstakingly create decades - friendship, respect, support and mutual assistance, great deeds, etc., revenge coupled with resentment, can be destroyed almost instantly.
What is revenge - definition and esoteric interpretation
Revenge- poorly controlled desire for excessive punishment to another. Revenge is an emotional program for the realization of resentment. Error- in violation of the laws of justice: the punishment should not exceed the offense inflicted, and if a person repents, then most often for the first time he should be forgiven.
Revenge, as well as resentment, is replaced by Adequacy (fair punishment, according to the Law, first of all, according to the highest Law).
In other words, if you ask me - is it possible to take revenge? I'll tell you - of course not! But, if you ask a question - is it necessary to punish someone who is wrong and has done evil? I will answer - of course it is necessary! Because it should never go unanswered, and the person who committed it should go unpunished.
The difference between revenge and punishment is as follows. revenge program- a selfish negative desire to cause reciprocal evil to another person, based on resentment, which in itself is already evil. Revenge is not proportional to how many negative emotions a person (charge) will have, so much he will take revenge.
Adequate Punishment Program- this is the restoration of Justice, its motive (ideally should be) is an educational action in relation to a person who has committed evil (so that he understands that evil will always have to be answered with reciprocal pain and draw the right conclusions) and the suppression of evil itself as a social phenomenon ( do not ignore or promote). That is, in this case, the motive of the punisher - positive and noble - to wean from Evil.
How to deal with the desire for revenge?
1. In order to cope with the desire to take revenge, you must first of all defeat the Resentment that drives you. How to deal with resentment - read. What is resentment - see. If you remove resentment, revenge will be extinguished and you will be able to think with your head and reason adequately.
2. And when you are adequate and emotions do not hit your head, you will be able to weigh all the options and make a decision - how to respond to the evil done: forgive and refer the situation to the Court of God or think over an adequate punishment, and answer with dignity and strength, so that the lesson was, both for a specific person (the offender), and for others (witnesses).
Actually, these are all recommendations, although no, there is one more very important one, I always remember it and always follow it. Its essence is as follows - never make responsible decisions in your life in a negative emotional state. Nothing good and healthy can come to your mind at this moment. Responsible decisions should always be taken only in the best and highest mood and state of peace. If you are sausage, or you are in the negative - postpone all important decisions until better times. This will save you from fatal and irreparable mistakes, which those who made them, as a rule, regret all their lives.
Good luck to you and a positive wave, and may the hellish fire of revenge and the corrosive acid of resentment never touch your heart and your life!
